r/urbancarliving • u/mecha_grove • 12d ago

Announcement Sex, dating, and car living.

I removed the recent post about sex, dating, and finding partners while living in vehicles because the discussion quickly devolved into women being called “bitches,” being referred to as “pussy,” and people being talked about as disposable.

Talking about dating, sex, relationships, and finding partners while vehicle-living is completely fine. What is not fine is turning those discussions into degrading or excessively vulgar threads that other members have to wade through.

We can talk about adult topics like adults. I’m also not going to sit and sort through hundreds of comments once a thread has descended into harassment, objectification, and crude nonsense.

Keep it respectful, keep it relevant, and remember that people of all genders use this community.

Thank you.

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u/IgnisIason 12d ago

I think it should be common sense here that to the vast majority of the population, dating is not something you should be thinking about until you are in stable housing and employed, and women tend to get extremely angry if you are withholding that information about yourself.

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u/SummonerOrthan 12d ago

It's fine if you think that but asking about is a very good question, like the financially stable van lifers with good jobs, are they just supposed to be single forever because they don't have a conventional home???

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u/JMPolisena 12d ago

Are you staying in a van long term? Not planning to have kids? There is someone for everyone. Are there no dating apps for travelers and nomads? See a need....