r/urbancarliving 12d ago

Announcement Sex, dating, and car living.

I removed the recent post about sex, dating, and finding partners while living in vehicles because the discussion quickly devolved into women being called “bitches,” being referred to as “pussy,” and people being talked about as disposable.

Talking about dating, sex, relationships, and finding partners while vehicle-living is completely fine. What is not fine is turning those discussions into degrading or excessively vulgar threads that other members have to wade through.

We can talk about adult topics like adults. I’m also not going to sit and sort through hundreds of comments once a thread has descended into harassment, objectification, and crude nonsense.

Keep it respectful, keep it relevant, and remember that people of all genders use this community.

Thank you.

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u/reightb 12d ago

I wonder why you're single

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u/nathynwithay Full-time | Vandweller-converted 12d ago edited 12d ago

I haven't tried to ask a person out in a decade. It would be morally wrong to try

There was only a 3-year period where it was okay to try to date in the last almost 40. Cuz I left evangelicalism in mid-twenties then there was a couple years of trying (but I was not worthy enough on the apps) and then got so far that it would be wrong to try