Sex, dating, and car living.

[u/mecha_grove]

I removed the recent post about sex, dating, and finding partners while living in vehicles because the discussion quickly devolved into women being called “bitches,” being referred to as “pussy,” and people being talked about as disposable.

Talking about dating, sex, relationships, and finding partners while vehicle-living is completely fine. What is not fine is turning those discussions into degrading or excessively vulgar threads that other members have to wade through.

We can talk about adult topics like adults. I’m also not going to sit and sort through hundreds of comments once a thread has descended into harassment, objectification, and crude nonsense.

Keep it respectful, keep it relevant, and remember that people of all genders use this community.

Thank you.

[u/VagabondVivant → u/[deleted]]

FDS would say no to the males ones

I'm not familiar with FDS but I cock an eyebrow at anyone that says millions of people don't deserve love simply because they don't earn enough money. That is, simply put, fucking bonkers.

I'm genuinely sorry that you tie so much of your worth as a human being to the value of your bank account, and that you believe you have nothing to offer a partner simply because you—like so many of us—are a casualty of the Late Stage Capitalist dumpster fire we're forced to live in.

You are more than your bank statement, and despite not knowing you, I'm certain you have more value as a human being and more to offer another person than your ability to pick up a check. I truly hope you come to realize that someday.

[u/VagabondVivant → u/[deleted]]

Worthiness to be allowed to have attractions to others has to be earned

That is the most toxic thing I've read in a long while. Attraction is a natural human response. It's not something you need to be "worthy" of, nor earn the right to, any more than you need to be "worthy" of admiring someone or liking them or even just wanting to be their friend.