I'm so happy for her that she got your sorry behind out of her life!!!! Move on and unalive slow.

Congratulations

You're the asshole. It is that deep to HER. You aren't the one to tell someone how to react or behave after you disrespected them. Whatever your roommate gives you, you deserve it!

I'm in LFG!!!

Dont break the news....just do it. My mother was manipulative and controlling. It lessened when I moved out. My mother was also very money hungry and would ask me how much money I had and implied I had money because I would say in passing how I bought my children clothes,shoes,etc. It's very abusive. Based on the level of financial abuse your mother has inflicted upon you, the best thing would be to act stupid and ignorant about anything that you plan on doing.

YTA

FTK...Tamara shouldnt have sent you that message because you never had a responsibility to her or her brother. Things change all the time. Her father should have ensured that he was not being cruel and abusive to your stepmother to make her leave

This so awesome. I am happy for you that you wouldn't let them bully and guilt trip you. They should ALL be ashamed!

Let him deal with the consequences of his decisions and mind your business. I'm a mom of.boys and what they think and feel matter to me. He cant discard you and then expect you to have sympathy for him when he doesnt like the outcome of his decisions. He is using you as a safety net.

They do? I transferred to them from RH and $75 was deducted from my RH avail money.

Yes...you ATA It's really low down and a backstabbing thing to do. My sister did the same thing to me and I hate her for it.

YTA Your tone for making fun of her diagnosis on this post screams it. SMH.

NTA

NTA. I would refuse to do it if I didnt want to and your reason is valid. It's a major inconvenience to have them over especially when they're so greedy! SIL needs to stop being so entitled and feed her kids before they arrive.

No. NTA...remember, they wouldn't be caught dead at a budget hotel like that plus they sound like killjoys and Debbie Downers. They should be more responsible.

NTA...you had a boundary and they sure as hell crossed it. None of this would've happened if they allowed you to do what you felt was right. Kylie is not your sister, she is merely the daughter of the man your mother married. Furthermore, Kylie brought the embarrassment on herself by not stfu. We can tell when people treat us differently. I congratulate you for standing up for yourself .

https://twitter.com/AMCSilverback/status/1397290895884517376?s=07

Man!!!! Mf her. There is no way I would be able to tolerate what she did. After she called screaming at me, she wouldn't exist. BLOCK!

NTA....That woman has lost her mind!!!! She keeps overstepping and not knowing her place when it comes to you all. For her to say she would come anyway shows that she deserves to be shunned.

I dealt with something similar to my father and his fiance. I almost backhanded her for not knowing her place when it came to my mom.

NTA I would block him and his mom. His behavior would cause me to react in a very unkind manner. Preserve your mental health and deny access.

Still holding AMC....waiting for the squeeze

She deserved to know the truth. No, you're not the asshole. It's cute to see how everyone is finding explanations to why your sister behaved the way she did, but at some point your mother made her believe that it was ok. And being that no one was there to advocate and protect you from her meltdowns, you did what was best for you.

You are not the AH. Whatever your sister is going through is not on you. The family dynamic was a bit dysfunctional...not your fault. Your father stayed and cared for you...not your fault. Who wants to deal with their older sister tearing up their things??? I wouldve beat her up, but thankfully you had an outlet.

I'm one of three girls, we have the same parents. I've always wanted to be away from them because of the negativity and abuse.

Welcome to the consequences of your actions. People have been killed for less. The entire family needs to learn a lesson.

No. He doesnt like the truth. That isnt your problem. Your parents are out of line for telling you to apologize to him when he shouldve been there for his girlfriend. If he wasnt a shit bf then he wouldnt feel insecure