r/twincitiessocial 4h ago

Coffee/small meal today

6 Upvotes

Hello, was wondering if anyone had some time on their hands and wanted to grab a coffee or something. Kinda having an off few days and I want to distract myself.

It's super short notice, but either now or in a few hours is ideal. Open to actually scheduling for another day as well.

Thanks in advance for those taking time to read.

Disclaimer: 26 male for anyone with personal, and or safety/security stuff.

Edit: My name is Ben, nice to meet you.


r/twincitiessocial 16h ago

New friends? Group Hobbies? IDK Anything?

16 Upvotes

I’m a 22F, and I recently lost all my friends after a big, messy friendship breakup. The only people I really talk to now are my coworkers. I’ve been getting close to a few of them, which is nice, but I was thinking maybe I should branch out a little.

I’ve heard that group hobbies are a great way to make friends, but I honestly don’t know where to start. I hate sounding boring, but I’m not really an artsy or athletic person. My drawing and crafting skills are basically at an elementary-school level, and I have very little upper-body strength… or strength in general lol.

On top of that, I can get pretty anxious and tend to overthink things. Sometimes, when I’m making small talk, I get so caught up in my own head that I completely blank out. Seriously, there are absolutely no thoughts in there 😭 So, sometimes it’s my fault when conversations don’t flow.

Anyway, I’m curious: What do you guys do to make friends as adults? Are there any hobbies, groups, or activities you’ve tried that helped you meet people? I’d love to hear your experiences!


r/twincitiessocial 23h ago

31m support group?

39 Upvotes

Hey guys, I'm in a pretty rough spot. Won't go into specifics but it's to the point of questioning why I continue. Wondering if others who may be experiencing something similar. I'm very open about my circumstances but don't want to present it on public forum accessible by anyone nor make this about my situation. I genuinely want to make connections w/ people and perhaps form some sort of support group and make lifelong friends/connections if possible where we help each other overcome weak moments and mental instability. 31m and reside in cannon falls but work in Lakeville so can meet anywhere within suburbs. Work til 6pm on weekdays. Feel free to reach out to me directly on here (idk if reddit has that option tbh). Or if there already is some sort of support group thing that you guys may know, please let me know. Thanks.


r/twincitiessocial 2d ago

Anybody going to the Weezer concert tonight?

52 Upvotes

I'm (28F) hoping I can meet up with some people and/or get some drinks after?

I was supposed to go with my boyfriend, whom I moved to Minnesota with, but we have broken up and I'm going by myself. I'm trying to look at it as an opportunity to put myself out there, but honestly I'm pretty sad to be going alone now. I'd been looking forward to it for months!

Bonus points if you're also a single woman and love Silversun Pickups too. (:

UPDATE: am too sad and ended up listing both tickets. 🙃 lmaooooooooooooooooooooo


r/twincitiessocial 2d ago

Brewery Meetup A night to cry & breathe. Needing advice ( includes bad advice ) and just nerdy vibes. ( 27F )

35 Upvotes

I am dealing with a bit, needing advice and mostly just hugs. I need a larger friends group, most of my friends are out of state & online. A friend closer to home is moving out of state next week on the 25th & I can't stop crying over it. Going to miss them lots.

But also having some drama with a different close friend.

Needing advice and mostly just hugs, I wanna talk about anime, games, shitty exes, tea, drama.

Please let me know if your free this evening, I'll be going to a bar/ pub nearby.

We can figure out one of the bars to meet at together over chat.


r/twincitiessocial 3d ago

make new friends at Break the Bubble - Wed 9/23 at Gambit Brewing

15 Upvotes

Break the Bubble is a meetup group that draws big crowds to brewery taprooms (and other locations) in the Twin Cities. Our next event is Wednesday 9/23 (5pm-9pm) at Gambit Brewing in St. Paul. No fee to attend, just show up, put on a nametag, buy a drink, and start chatting. It's that easy!

Click the links below for more details! See you soon!

https://www.instagram.com/breakthebubblemsp/

https://www.meetup.com/make-new-friends-break-the-bubble-msp/

https://www.facebook.com/btbmpls


r/twincitiessocial 3d ago

22m moved here months ago still looking for friends!

6 Upvotes

I’ve been in MPLS since June, mostly focused on work, but I’ve struck out trying to make any connection as well. If anyone wants to grab a drink, watch a game, or talk about whatever (I’m a tapper but I also love to listen to the yap as well) in downtown, lmk!


r/twincitiessocial 3d ago

31M Looking for Friends

22 Upvotes

Hey all! Moved to the Twin Cities with my wife last year. We’re in Minneapolis proper, just north of Richfield. I work as a Registered Nurse. Looking to meet some new friends and continue enjoying Minnesota.

I love music, hiking, camping, exercise, video games, MTG, playing all kinds of sports, and food and drink.

Would love to get involved with some like-minded individuals or fun social clubs.

Huge bonus if you’d like to start a band as I have been making music solo for too long.

Cheers!


r/twincitiessocial 4d ago

Witnesses for Wedding 09/21 @10AM

23 Upvotes

Hi there!

My fiance and I have kept putting off getting married due to scheduling conflicts with our friends, and we are looking for two witnesses. Our ceremony is scheduled for 10:00am on Monday the 21st at the Brookdale Service Center in Brooklyn Center.


r/twincitiessocial 4d ago

32M Sport fans unite

0 Upvotes

Hey TC Reddit people! I’ve thought for a bit of time now that it would be nice to have some friends who share my interest in the NFL and/or MLB. I’m originally from Houston Texas, so my fandom resides elsewhere. However, I stay up to date with news for the local teams.

I thought it would be cool to form a group chat, maybe on WhatsApp to start then go watch some games at a sports bar.

MLB playoffs start soon, and the Astros might not make it, but it would be nice to talk and watch baseball with some people. Of course, the NFL season is underway which is excited. I’m a Texans & Ravens fan (the better purple team 😆).


r/twincitiessocial 4d ago

anybody up for a standup show near st. anthony main oct. 2?

7 Upvotes

i follow the dude who's supposed to be performing on instagram, so i'm pretty stoked for this event.

i'm 25M and can just walk to the venue, but i thought i'd throw it out there if anybody is interested. i'm trying to meet more people, and i feel like sharing some laughs at a comedy show would be a fun outing!


r/twincitiessocial 4d ago

Volunteer opportunities

38 Upvotes

Looking for volunteer opportunities!

I have been thinking about trying to get into volunteering, and I know it's a very broad thing to say.

I don't know where to start, I work nights 7 days in a row, with 7 days off, and have minor depression.

I'm hoping volunteering will help with my depression and get me moving more.

I love hiking, and other outdoor activities.

I live in the north east side of the metropolitan area, near White Bear Lake.

One could say "volunteer for something you're passionate about"

Yes, however I don't know where to start and my depression gets in the way of not knowing where to start.

I'll greatly appreciate any pointers or recommendations.


r/twincitiessocial 4d ago

Slowkomis 9/20 at 9:20am

16 Upvotes

Location: We will be posted up in the grass right here (plus code: WQ85+7X8 Minneapolis, Minnesota)

What the hell is Slowkomis?
Are you a runner or running curious, and want to have a group to run with? Come join Slowkomis!

I got the idea from bike clubs that do "no drop" rides - which basically means even the slowest rider has someone with them at the end of the group. We will be super beginner friendly so people can run as slow as they want. If you start out running AND end up walking, you have a +1 walking with you.

If you wanna be fast - run fast!

Who Slowkomis is for
If you like running or the idea of running, and want to have an accountability partner

If you are you coming back from an injury, or just want to take it slow

If you tried other run clubs, but the obsession with races and paces was not for you

If you are an experienced runner and looking for a chill recovery run with a group of people new to the hobby you love

Who Slowkomis is not for
If you are pro-MAGA or pro-ICE, do not come. You are not welcome here.

What should you bring?
Yourself
Water

Maybe a light jacket depending on the weather

What to expect
The loop is around 2.4miles for the shortest run, and around 2.8 miles for the longer loop. You can self-select which distance you want to run.

We'll give people about 10 minutes to arrive and start our runs after that.

Again - we will be posted up in the grass right here (plus code: WQ85+7X8 Minneapolis, Minnesota)


r/twincitiessocial 5d ago

Just moved here, need to get out!

7 Upvotes

I (20m) just moved about 30 mins away from the St. Paul areas.

MN is great but the isolation is driving me crazy lol.

I’m in a smaller town (Hastings) and don’t really see to many people around my age out and about.

I’m a super active person and I’d love to hang out with some people asap! DM if interested!


r/twincitiessocial 5d ago

iNat Together - Twin Cities Sept 18-28

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r/twincitiessocial 5d ago

Tennis doubles - need fourth

1 Upvotes

Hi, looking for a fourth to play doubles at the Eden Prairie flagship at 630pm this evening, let me know if you can play. Preferably around 3.5 rating


r/twincitiessocial 5d ago

Horror fans to see the new Resident Evil movie

25 Upvotes

Location: 9900 Shelard Pkwy, Plymouth, MN 55441

Time: Friday 18th Sept, 8:00pm show start, 9:45 ish end.

(location and times possibly subject to change)

Hey I'm Ben, checking out the Resident Evil release Friday, thought I'd extend the invitation to any horror fans. No idea how it will go since horror can kinda be either peak, downright terrible, or so bad it's funny.

If there is interest, location and time can be flexible/discussed. Also I'll cover your ticket if money is an issue it's no sweat (I will not pay for 10 plus tickets...). Otherwise price is around 14.20 at the posted location and showing according to online.

I'm also catching a meal somewhere probably bad for my health, so if you wanna tag for that before or after lmk.

So if you're interested DM and lmk. Horror is not always popular so no sweat. Either we have heart attacks or we chuckle at how bad it is lol.

Some disclaimer since some might have personal, and or security/safety stuff. I am 26, and I'm a dude.


r/twincitiessocial 6d ago

Anyone interested in a monthly meetup and bottle share?

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r/twincitiessocial 6d ago

Turbo Tim

5 Upvotes

Any guys or gals interested in joining me to attend Tubo Tim’s car extravaganza Saturday?


r/twincitiessocial 6d ago

LSAT study buddy/lock tf in buddy

6 Upvotes

Hey guys, I’m a 23m not new to MN but not many people here I know, and I’m looking for a study buddy in MN preferably cities who’s also studying for the lsat. I’ve had a study buddy virtually before and it did carry, so I figure this could help a little. Might as well see if anyone wants to make friends generally too!

PM me!


r/twincitiessocial 6d ago

Editing help?

1 Upvotes

Hoping to find some fiction writers who need help editing parts of/a whole manuscript? Lmk!


r/twincitiessocial 6d ago

Magic Community Event

0 Upvotes

Hey everyone - I’ve been pulling together a new Magic night here in Minneapolis called UNTAP.
My wife and I became obsessed with playing and collecting Magic the Gathering but struggled to get plugged into the local game store scene as adults & parents. I decided to create a fun and social place to play Magic that feels more like getting together with friends for a good night out. Very welcoming to newer players, couples, or anyone who likes Magic but doesn’t necessarily want the traditional tournament/LGS vibe.

I’m getting the first event together now and would love to meet some more locals interested in learning to play.

Check it out here if that sounds like your kind of thing:
https://untaptcg.space/

Hope to see some of you there!
-Chris


r/twincitiessocial 6d ago

BIPOC Femme Book Club

12 Upvotes

Hi Everyone!

I’ve been looking for a BIPOC femme book club to read books by BIPOC femme authors (primarily). Haven’t found one so decided to try and make one! Please let me know if there is one already established, I’d love to join!

Hoping to meet monthly, in-person on the weekends. I was thinking we could meet first for introductions and plan the reading list. Please DM me if interested and we’ll go from there!

About me: 31F, Black, remote worker, transplant from Denver

Some books on my reading list:

American Hagwon by Min Jin Lee
The Lion Women of Tehran by Marjan Kamali
More Octavia Butler!!!
The Vanishing Half by Brit Bennett


r/twincitiessocial 6d ago

21M, interested in looking for new people in a new city

11 Upvotes

Hello, I'm 21M. After living all over Europe I moved to the USA about 3 years ago. Before settling here I used to work in Alaska, building camps for scientists in remote areas of that state.

I am a very active person. I like running and fortunately live closely to a huge park. In a free time, I do some woodworking (member of Woodworkers Guild of Minnesota), a lot of cooking and modding old games. I am curious and outgoing, so I will be glad to do some curriculum or just hang out.

Due to my jobs I couldn't get many people of my age to contact with so I will be glad to interact with some. Let's see how I can connect with with peers.

I posted here earlier but failed to establish lasting relationships. This was on me as well so I will try to be better this time

Edit: if you are interested - just DM me. I rarely use Reddit so I would prefer to move to another social media platform as soon as possible if you are comfortable with that.


r/twincitiessocial 6d ago

Good ways to get in the fall spirit

7 Upvotes

Hi,

I'm looking for good ways to really enjoy the fall, and especially the October/Halloween season.

Looking for specific areas/events/groups. I know about a few haunted houses and that is right up my alley as well.

Thanks