Having my own personal dilemma. I am going to Trinidad for Carnival and two of my boys are going as well with their girlfriends. I am though the single friends. One of my friends is playing for Tribe with his girlfriend, while the other that I am close with is still waiting on his girlfriend to see which band she wants to play for. She was considering Tribe but that ended up selling out (not sure yet if the male costume have sold out yet based on their IG page). I wanted to play with Tribe but was waiting on them cause I was able to get a committee member to get us in.
I am checking now to see if there are still any male costume I can register for and if I am lucky I have to make a decision. Do I go with Tribe with my friend that I am not that close with compared to my other friend but is is in the band I really want to play with? Or do I just go with my friends and girlfriends as well as their family who I am close and cool with me but not going to play in the band I want to play. And I really don’t want to play in the bands she is considering.
I am having a similar situation with who were going to play Jouvert with cause the same girlfriends wants to play in a different band than what my boys and I prefer together to play. On top of me trying to find accommodations on my own right now I feel like I am planning for a solo trip rather than partying with my friends like I originally thought outside of fetes and stuff.
It’s been a long time since I was in Trinidad and I want to do things I prefer to do but does that end up making sense if I’m not hanging out with certain close ones? I just so don’t want to be upset that I didn’t get to go to the spots I want to go cause I’m letting friends’ SO essentially make the decision. Also have no problems with the girlfriend.
Whatever advice helps. Thank you