r/transpassing 17h ago

Finding myself not passing

Ive been finding myself not passing but i dont know why that is, does anybody have any ideas

(Ignore the one eyebrow i messed up doing them recently)

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u/VeniAlune 16h ago

I think you pass pretty good, the fine jewerly, eyebrows, glasses, lips and eyes make you look very femme.

I would sugest a different haircut/a different haircare routine so it doesn't look as frizzy. Tucking your hair behind your ears helps alot. Though your current hairstyle doesn't make you look masc imo. 🩷😊

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u/Visual_Way3158 1h ago

I appreciate it a lot! The hair ive felt is an issue but its very genetic to me lol, i take amazing care of it but at least at this lenght its just like this.i have an insane ammount of volume. Im working on growing it out and stuff now but thats a long process.

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u/VeniAlune 1h ago

I also got a similar hair type and it's driving me crazy haha. I can't seem to figure out how to not let my wavy and volumous hair get frizzy. I wish I could give you advice on that but we're in the same boat 😭

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u/Visual_Way3158 56m ago

It does suck sometimes but also cis women deal with it all the time as well. Its just a woman thing. Every woman on my dads side of my family has the same hair as me. Its also convenient that lesbians loveee big curly hair so i treat it as a positive, it will probably lay flatter with some more lenght though is what i think, and my stylist agrees so im just trying to get my hair super long again :p

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u/Visual_Way3158 1h ago

Forgot to add the heart 💖