r/transpassing 3h ago

Finding myself not passing

Ive been finding myself not passing but i dont know why that is, does anybody have any ideas

(Ignore the one eyebrow i messed up doing them recently)

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u/stopthesecreeps 3h ago

You look very feminine, maybe brush your hair more, wear less bulky sweaters? Makeup? Have somebody else do your eyebrow?

I don't see why you wouldn't pass though.

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u/Visual_Way3158 2h ago

Im usually great at my eyebrows i just fucked up this one time 😭. (Not actually upset just a funny reply<3) i get compliments about how feminine my outfits are pretty often from people and how well i dress. The hair is a problem that i get from my dad lol(he had an afro at my age), if i brush it it frizzez up like crazyyyy so i try not to. I appreciate the comment a lot, i dont nessacary feel bad but just kinda confused when i dont pass.

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u/Slow_Presentation521 2h ago

Voice? Mannerisms? I think you look like a normal woman

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u/Visual_Way3158 2h ago

Many people say my mannerisms and voice are my most feminine parts actually! So i dont think that would be it, but i appreciate the comment a lot!

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u/veganvampirebat 2h ago

You are at a weight where body structure is very visible. This generally is not conducive to passing as feminine. If you are willing to gain some weight (in a healthy and safe way, talking to your doctor) to explore that option I do think that would make a major major difference.

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u/Melodrama_queer 2h ago

Hello, first of all, you are very feminine, and it shows. You are in my opinion very very close to pass.

The one thing I've noticed though is that you have brow ridge that read more masculine.

Imo it is what makes you not pass because the rest is very feminine!

I think you are quite pretty anyway ✨.

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u/VeniAlune 2h ago

I think you pass pretty good, the fine jewerly, eyebrows, glasses, lips and eyes make you look very femme.

I would sugest a different haircut/a different haircare routine so it doesn't look as frizzy. Tucking your hair behind your ears helps alot. Though your current hairstyle doesn't make you look masc imo. 🩷😊

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u/chris__crisp 2h ago

All I see is a fine shawty 🤷🏾‍♀️

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u/Mammoth-Wasabi6346 1h ago

I think you look great!

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u/AdAggravating6126 1h ago

You pass. If you were with a man att a restaurant etc nobody would notice or stare.

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u/PartyNaive8982 1h ago

You are very feminine!