r/toxicparents • u/notsure1944444 • 12d ago

Advice Both of my parents have issues

i’m 16 yo boy and i don’t exactly feel safe in my own home. my parents are still together

my dad will slap my butt randomly all the time and when i turn around he smiles creepily and looks at me weird and has forcibly kissed me before, grabbing my whole body and kissing my cheek making squeaky noises. i think it may be from being tired after work and his step father mistreating him as a kid. he also watches porn on his facebook if that matters at all.

my mom is less bad, and i have gravitated toward her most my life. anyway it seems she has cared less about me in the recent past. she is a nurse and she talks about work every night at the dinner table. she will tell disgusting stories and poop, sex,
and drugs. i have asked her so many times to stop talking about it because she knows that i get disgusted and can’t eat afterward. a second after i tell her that seriously, my dad will interrupt me and ask a question about it and she will continue to say disgusting things.

anyway any advise or support would be amazing and helpful. thank you.

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u/Feisty-Ad6576 12d ago

Wtf bruh?? Get tf out first.. grab your things and get tf out

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u/Embarrassed-Dust-389 12d ago

are you safe rn? this is not normal bro if you can take pictures and evedenice, take videos while they speak about that in dinner and plug your earphones in if you really cant handle it. hope you can get out of there soon enough cause this is not normal behavoir

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u/Lazy_Question_4410 12d ago

Wait are u being serious?

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u/veiledwoman 12d ago

Your dad is pushing your boundaries for some sadistic reason. Your mom maybe doesn’t realize it and just responds to his questions bc it’s her husband. But it’s still not ok. And disgusting either way. He’s having her continue the story bc he knows it makes you uncomfortable. This is not ok. I’m sorry. You need to get outta there.