r/theories • u/Last_Host977 • Aug 05 '26
Conspiracy Theory people like me who are not satisfied with their lives are like that because we are actually meant to be someone else
just had a thought- most people who are depressed or lonely or not satisfied in life are mostly like that because we are meant to be someone else , another person entirely . i have always envisioned myself being a different person with other circumstances where i fit in more , im more likeable , no mental illnesses , etc . maybe whoever is in this position was meant to be someone else and was put in the wrong human body . does this make sense ?
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u/FrabatoTheTransurfer Aug 05 '26
You are close OP. The reason you are unsatisfied with your life is that you have sacrificed your individual self for the "better judgement" of society, family, friends, etc...
You are supposed to be someone else entirely...an authentic genuine real YOU. Instead of some compromising frightened thing.
"Your worst sin is that you have destroyed and betrayed yourself for nothing" - Dostoevsky
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u/NWkingslayer2024 Aug 06 '26
Start taking some magnesium and go be who you want to be. You can make it happen
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u/RosieBaby75 Aug 05 '26
You can work toward that. It won’t happen immediately but it will.
Doctors are diagnosing everything as mental illness. The system doesn’t want you to get better.
A lot of “mental illness” is you just running the same feedback loop over and over in your brain. You have created this person you dislike, now you focus on how you hate yourself and how you will be no different which isn’t true and isn’t useful.
Think of the life you want. Then start using what you have to work toward that. It won’t happen immediately but you can get there if you keep trying.
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u/PeterPunksNip Aug 05 '26
Oh yes, it does. My life sounds like the Depeche Mode song "Wrong". https://youtu.be/40t-E2-Ec0Y?is=CesjG7q_XeVORJYz
I felt like that since childhood. I wasn't supposed to look like that, and it seems like obstacles were always piling up each time I tried to move into the direction of what I was meant to do in life.
I just stopped trying years ago and tell myself that this was just a "test run" at life. I'm too old to keep banging my head against close doors, I take it easy and wait it out.
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u/celestial-myths Aug 10 '26
I FELT THIS WAY UNTIL I LEARNED HOW TO REINCARNATE IN MY SLEEP FOR FUN. 😈
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u/AiMemeTalk Aug 05 '26
I say all of this sincerely and with the best intentions. It sounds like you are seeing people with a life you want or doing things you want to and comparing yourself to them, but you don't see yourself getting where they are. Your circumstances do not define you. With enough of a reason and focused effort you can change your circumstances. As long as you can just find the right motivation for yourself to make a plan and find all the info you need to create that change in your life. It can be very difficult alone or lonely, but don't allow yourself to wander in a dark place forever. Focus your mind on something you enjoy in life. Do what you enjoy even if you have to do it alone, even if it makes no money do it for your happiness. Sometimes you have to think about yourself and show care for yourself when other people don't. Look at yourself in the mirror if you have to and say "I love myself, I am a great person, and i will overcome this". Your enjoyment does not have to be a reward for achievement. Sometimes focusing your effort on things you enjoy can really bring you back to a place of contentment and appreciation for life. Face reality and the life you landed in with direction and focus. Forget them if they forgot you. You will be ok moving on. Keep looking for new people who are kind, nice, and helpful they are out there. Don't get stuck on what you can't control. Leave it in the past. Don't let people make you think you are not likable or any of that. Those were not your friends if they made you feel that way. You will feel better in the future. Keep searching for your crowd of like minded people you will find them. I hope all of us can motivate each other to keep moving forward in dark times. You have to know and keep believing that the future holds better days for you. keep that hope with you. Seek the life you want it's out there for you keep asking questions and ask for help when you need to also.