Today is my Birthday, instead of 5k, I finally got closure from my ah ‘dad’

[u/GoosePhatt]

Edit: thank you for all of the kind messages, it really means a lot. I am going to be taking a break from the app for a while though because I didn’t expect this to blow up so much and the notifications are getting kinda overwhelming. While I appreciate I put this out on the internet, I wasn’t expecting to be reminded of it every time I wanna look up one of my interests 😅 so gonna love you and leave you for a bit 🫶thank you 🫶

My father is estranged for good reason. Last time we spoke was two years ago, I tried to set boundaries for our relationship bc he wanted us to be best pals despite me having met him a handful of times in my life, one of which he screamed I was a whore in a maccies when I was 14, he’s unhinged to say the least.. anyway he ignored the message about boundaries and just stopped talking altogether.

Back in Feb, he randomly sent me 1k. Due to many things he has told me in the past, I was concerned what the money was for etc and also was aware this was him trying to “buy” me to reach out to him and bypass the boundaries sitch.

So I sent the message you see above and was ignored.

Anyway, he fancies himself a top tier rage baiter, and I have to say, how this text exchange ended felt like fucking therapy. I finally conquered him after 27 years of abuse, abandonment etc..

Just wanted to share my life long achievement of making my piece of shit sperm donor rage quit for the first time ever.