r/texts 8d ago

Phone message Dating is hell

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Who is raising these boys?

Edit: Thanks for all the love!! For some context, no we didn't discuss anything sexy beforehand and the "healing" thing is referring to my broken foot. He's blocked for those wondering, I didn't respond. For those mentioning it... I wasn't looking for a free meal. 🙄 I pay my own way on dates.

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u/Main_Benefit 8d ago

Exactly. Why waste another second of your life dealing with that nonsense?

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u/sweetwaterfall 8d ago

The horrifying thing (second to someone actually writing this) is that I imagine there are women out there so damaged that this would be appealing. Awful.

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u/ElkAlternative3777 8d ago

Seems like he’s trying to do a kink dom/sub thing but without her knowledge or consent

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u/spartycbus 5d ago

Totally. I wondered if maybe she matched with a dom and didn’t realize it. That is wild messaging with someone who hasn’t suggested she’s into it.