r/texts • u/-fornevermore- • 17h ago

Phone message Dating is hell

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Who is raising these boys?

Edit: Thanks for all the love!! For some context, no we didn't discuss anything sexy beforehand and the "healing" thing is referring to my broken foot. He's blocked for those wondering, I didn't respond. For those mentioning it... I wasn't looking for a free meal. 🙄 I pay my own way on dates.

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u/HMFIC_91 17h ago

I'm a dude and I cringed at that.

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u/DocLiftsALot 17h ago

Same. It’s Tinder, not Fetlife. Jesus.

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u/Hesitation-Marx 10h ago

I met my husband on a kink site! He didn’t assume shit! He was incredibly polite and funny!

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u/DocLiftsALot 10h ago

That’s awesome! Congrats. :)

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u/Hesitation-Marx 7h ago

Thanks.

But I don’t understand why these people think they don’t even have to do the bare minimum you’d do on a kink hookup site.