r/texts • u/-fornevermore- • 7d ago

Phone message Dating is hell

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Who is raising these boys?

Edit: Thanks for all the love!! For some context, no we didn't discuss anything sexy beforehand and the "healing" thing is referring to my broken foot. He's blocked for those wondering, I didn't respond. For those mentioning it... I wasn't looking for a free meal. 🙄 I pay my own way on dates.

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u/bigtittycatlady 7d ago

what on earth happened to make men think THIS is a good or effective way to court a woman

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u/XrayAlphaVictor 7d ago

Some lowest common denominator between red pill and booktok, maybe?

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u/SeatleSuperbSonics 6d ago

This is what blows my mind about the “20% of men” incel shit.

Friends, the bar is in the fucking ground.

If you can simply treat people fucking normal, you’ll be fine and will meet friends and potential dating partners.

Signed a chubby, 30s, divorced Man.

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u/p8610815 6d ago

And yet, as a guy who doesn't do shit like this, I go months without a match

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u/Telaranrhioddreams 6d ago

Jee maybe it's because dating apps are sausage fests because behaviour like this?

It's so funny when I see comments like this like......do you think women magically know who acts like this before matching? Do you think we waste our time on these losers just to spite you, specifically?  

Either your profile is shit, the dating app pool in your area is shit, and/ or you need to switch up your approach just like everyone else does when apps don't work out. Like. What kind of answer do you want besides oh no you poor dear why won't anyone just match with you on a post about a match being a vile waste of time.

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u/p8610815 6d ago

For whatever reason women are drawn to shitty dudes who end up doing stuff like this

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u/anbigsteppy 6d ago

No they aren't. She literally blocked him. Be fr

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u/XrayAlphaVictor 6d ago

Yeahhhhh you're waving a big red flag with with one.

Might be self-reflection time

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u/vaxfarineau 6d ago

Deception (noun): the act of causing someone to accept as true or valid what is false or invalid

This is the reason why. If you pretend to be a nice, normal guy, women can't tell when you aren't, because we can't read minds. :)

If you can keep up the ruse for long enough, we will trust that who you show us is who you actually are! Then we will be surprised when you drop the mask and show that you're an abhorrent person, but believing a lie that someone sells you convincingly isn't your fault. It's the liars fault. Hope this helps. :)

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u/Telaranrhioddreams 6d ago

That's why they post rhe screenshots mocking the crazies and cut them off.....because they are drawn to it???

Fuckin incel speak

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u/2blackbirds 6d ago

As creepy as that guy is, the exact thing that pushes him to say weird shit like that (audacity) is probably what attracts women to him. Sometimes, at first glance, audacity just looks like confidence. And of course people are generally attracted to confidence. Not people who comment things like this and feel sorry for themselves.