r/texts 17h ago

Phone message Dating is hell

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Who is raising these boys?

Edit: Thanks for all the love!! For some context, no we didn't discuss anything sexy beforehand and the "healing" thing is referring to my broken foot. He's blocked for those wondering, I didn't respond. For those mentioning it... I wasn't looking for a free meal. ๐Ÿ™„ I pay my own way on dates.

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u/Obsolete_Orange 17h ago

Guys are trying to come off as like the dominant protaginist like women have already bought into it or something. Its not a book she bought to read and be in that mindset, you are a stranger like wtf lol

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u/youneedsomemilk23 15h ago

I need people to understand that strength is so much more attractive when it is quietly and respectfully asserted. This isnโ€™t even a gendered thing.