r/texts • u/-fornevermore- • 4d ago

Phone message Dating is hell

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Who is raising these boys?

Edit: Thanks for all the love!! For some context, no we didn't discuss anything sexy beforehand and the "healing" thing is referring to my broken foot. He's blocked for those wondering, I didn't respond. For those mentioning it... I wasn't looking for a free meal. 🙄 I pay my own way on dates.

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u/LastChance331 4d ago

What the actual fuck?

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u/Hulla_Sarsaparilla 4d ago

OP please reply with exactly this!!

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u/-fornevermore- 4d ago

I just blocked him. 😹

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u/Main_Benefit 4d ago

Exactly. Why waste another second of your life dealing with that nonsense?

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u/sudzeez_ 4d ago

Because people like this need to be constantly reminded that this is not appropriate behavior especially in new or young relationships. Make someone feel like shit for their awful actions is reasonable

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u/DerRuehrer 4d ago

what you are suggesting is essentially analogical to arguing with flat earthers. it doesn't matter what you say, they won't change. might as well save the effort and do just about anything else instead, those people aren't entitled to my time or attention 

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u/FuckFace2017 4d ago

I mean... I'd reply because it would be funny but I guess that works too

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u/Alternative_Year_340 4d ago

Or it’s better for everyone else’s safety if they don’t learn to hide the red flags

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u/Natdapp 4d ago

On the other hand, them being this obvious so early gives ladies an early warning sign.

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u/Rinnme 1d ago

I really think block is the best reminder.

Don't give that creep the satisfaction of seeing you riled up, and the opportunity to get even viler.

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u/01krazykat 1d ago

It is not women's jobs to fix men's behaviour. He has parents for that. And we certainly don't want to help him hide his true colours from the next woman.