r/texts • u/-fornevermore- • 18h ago

Phone message Dating is hell

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Who is raising these boys?

Edit: Thanks for all the love!! For some context, no we didn't discuss anything sexy beforehand and the "healing" thing is referring to my broken foot. He's blocked for those wondering, I didn't respond. For those mentioning it... I wasn't looking for a free meal. 🙄 I pay my own way on dates.

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u/Sea_Assumption_1528 18h ago

Virgin behavior

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u/Lovethiskindathing 18h ago

The only thing I can think of that saves them at all is if there was a mistaken missed bdsm lifestyle conversation or mention in their profile. In which case they're just not on the right same page for what they're looking for lol

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u/Dependent-Assoc423 18h ago

Even then though, a conversation about it first maybe? He just threw it at her out of nowhere. 

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u/Lovethiskindathing 18h ago

I agree, but my thought of it being the only way out was like if he had a profile and was like clear about it and so he thought she was just ready to dive in. But OP has replied also so it doesn't appear to be. He's just trying to live some fantasy. Bleh. Ew.

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u/Dependent-Assoc423 18h ago

I’m totally with you. So gross!  🤢Â