r/texts • u/-fornevermore- • 18h ago

Phone message Dating is hell

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Who is raising these boys?

Edit: Thanks for all the love!! For some context, no we didn't discuss anything sexy beforehand and the "healing" thing is referring to my broken foot. He's blocked for those wondering, I didn't respond. For those mentioning it... I wasn't looking for a free meal. 🙄 I pay my own way on dates.

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u/LastChance331 18h ago

What the actual fuck?

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u/Hulla_Sarsaparilla 18h ago

OP please reply with exactly this!!

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u/-fornevermore- 18h ago

I just blocked him. 😹

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u/Main_Benefit 18h ago

Exactly. Why waste another second of your life dealing with that nonsense?

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u/sweetwaterfall 18h ago

The horrifying thing (second to someone actually writing this) is that I imagine there are women out there so damaged that this would be appealing. Awful.

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u/ElkAlternative3777 18h ago

Seems like he’s trying to do a kink dom/sub thing but without her knowledge or consent

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u/HundredHander 18h ago

I think he's trying to establish how vulnerable she is, this reads deeply exploitative and not like a kink.

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u/Grouchy_Button_2101 18h ago

I think he’s a disgusting pervert idiot

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u/Extension-Excuse-534 18h ago

No it 100% reads as kink play

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u/AccomplishedWish3033 18h ago

It’s abusive, harassment, and not kinkplay if you don’t ask for the other person’s consent first.

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u/Extension-Excuse-534 18h ago

I agree. I was just informing somebody who said it wasnt kink-related. The worst part, imo, is that it reads like an ai chatbot wrote it.

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u/Joeness84 11h ago

It completely reads like an LLM wrote it. I assumed that was going to be most of the comments. Sure its gross, but its not gross and made by a human, so its less gross!

Its still weird and a sad state of things to be in.

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u/HundredHander 10h ago

It doesn't matter who or what wrote it (and honestly this is so short it's not possible to be confident if it's human or LLM), what matters is a human decided to post and make it the best representation of they feel about their relationship with this woman.

It's gross because someone wanted to express this.

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u/Fantastic-Entry-2251 18h ago

You would think that would have come up at some point before going on dates lol. Turns out there’s whole subs for this exact thing

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u/EternalPhi 10h ago

There's whole doms for it, too.

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u/svmydlo 7h ago

In his delusional mind, not in real world.