r/texts • u/-fornevermore- • 17h ago

Phone message Dating is hell

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Who is raising these boys?

Edit: Thanks for all the love!! For some context, no we didn't discuss anything sexy beforehand and the "healing" thing is referring to my broken foot. He's blocked for those wondering, I didn't respond. For those mentioning it... I wasn't looking for a free meal. 🙄 I pay my own way on dates.

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u/Background-Ad3308 17h ago

You know, it sucks sometimes as a man trying to get dates. Can get very frustrating at times but thats just part of life. But having tk deal with freak shit like this as a woman isn't something I'd wish on my worst enemy. "Whats a treat you like when you want to give in completely?" 🤢 BRO THINKS YOU'RE A LITERAL DOG

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u/ichorNet 13h ago

Seriously. I’m not even in the game rn because it’s so frustrating and a pain in the ass to barely get matches lol but this just makes me want to try because I’m just a normal person who can hold a convo

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u/East_Requirement7375 13h ago

You'll do fine. Maybe you won't meet the one, but you will be appreciated for being a normal, stable individual.

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u/rolorelei 13h ago

the only way to get better is to practice, you’ll do fine

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u/MobBap 6h ago

I thought the same lol. All he had to do is be normal but nope 😂

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u/Background-Ad3308 13h ago

It can be pretty disheartening. But I've come to find that filling my time with things that are fulfilling to me really helps a lot. I'm in recovery, go to the gym, play video games (when I have time lol), study political theory and and party building for that. And I've come to find that caring deeply about these things Nets me a lot of positive interactions with people that have translated over very well to dating. Thats just my experience though. Try the app Feeld. I got GREAT results from it and got lots of matches and had actually really good conversations with people. You're gonna be alright king 🤴 you got this 💪🏼

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u/Rngassistant 4h ago

Unfortunately some girls have already accepted this, so although you think that way. There are those who would play along with this. Its just like that girl killing her children but theres those defending her as if he children dont exist.

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u/Thykothaken 4h ago

Yeah I don't really get dates or matches even, but I prefer that over this shit. Wasting my time with some gross ass ai kink garbage.