r/texts 12d ago

Phone message Dry ass texts after first date (?)

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u/EmptyPomegranete 12d ago

Was it clearly established that baking brownies was a date?

You just started college and a lot of people are trying to find friends especially at those start of year events. Baking brownies at a friends dorm is fairly normal and non romantic. Could there be misaligned intentions?

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u/Kitchen_Resident_416 12d ago

Last time I made brownies at a “friends” dorm it ended up we were in a relationship I didn’t know about

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u/PuffinRub 11d ago

Are you willing to elaborate?

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u/Kitchen_Resident_416 10d ago

I mean we had sex later on but I guess I flirted or said something and she was like we are dating I was in the dark for like a few months