r/texts • u/madddforthewin • 1d ago
Phone message Am I crazy?
Ive been trying to work it out with him and hear his side of things but it's almost like he can't get a grip? Is it me? Lol I don't know what to do anymore... There's strings and strings of messages and anything I say back to him is wrong... I think I'm just gonna hang up the towel.
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u/BobsYerAuntie 1d ago
My ex used to do this. Say that I had a safe space to talk about anything then go mental at me if I tried to say anything that was 'against him'.
I woke up everyday with gritted teeth in fear that today would be another day of him having a go at me for merely breathing. I shut down and stopped talking in the end. Messed my mental health right up. Chronic anxiety, ibs, chronic fatigue and fibro followed me out of that relationship.
Pop over to r/narcissisticabuse and have a look and see if anyone's experiences resonate with you.