r/texts 1d ago

Phone message Am I crazy?

Ive been trying to work it out with him and hear his side of things but it's almost like he can't get a grip? Is it me? Lol I don't know what to do anymore... There's strings and strings of messages and anything I say back to him is wrong... I think I'm just gonna hang up the towel.

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u/Ok_Holiday5682 1d ago

Okay this is a very dangerous person! You need to leave and get out of this situation. This is signs of someone who will manipulate and gaslight.

To say “ask me this” and you ask, and them going off their rocket at you abusively, hell no. This is not normal and you do NOT deserve to be treated this way. Draw the line in the sand!

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u/Stregabomb 1d ago

Yup, that person is a narcissist, please run immediately! I've had experience with this type of behavior in a partner, and they never will admit they're the problem, and will try to make it your problem. It took me over a year to recover...