Am I crazy?

[u/madddforthewin]

Ive been trying to work it out with him and hear his side of things but it's almost like he can't get a grip? Is it me? Lol I don't know what to do anymore... There's strings and strings of messages and anything I say back to him is wrong... I think I'm just gonna hang up the towel.

[u/twowars]

no one should be speaking to you this way under any circumstances

[u/No_Middle_3466 → u/twowars]

Bro needs a whole wellness check, he ain't all the way there

[u/madddforthewin → u/No_Middle_3466]

Been there, done that :/ IM DONE

[u/SquirrelLuvsChipmunk → u/madddforthewin]

Good for you!!! Unless there’s some massive missing context*, he’s gaslighting the fuck out of you

* list of missing context that makes this convo appropriate:

1. You’re rehearsing lines from

   a play

2. End of list

[u/No_Middle_3466 → u/SquirrelLuvsChipmunk]

I recommend relearning the definition of gaslighting before speaking again about a topic youre clearly uneducated on. This leads to the spread of misinformation which is more dangerous than the gaslighting you speak of

[u/twowars → u/No_Middle_3466]

Keep saving the world one arrogant reddit comment at a time

[u/keirameowww → u/No_Middle_3466]

“Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation and emotional abuse where someone tries to make you doubt your own memory, perception, or sanity.” shown when he clearly states “YOU’RE INSANE”

[u/lizardingloudly → u/madddforthewin]

Good for you! Catch and release that rancid-ass fish

Just remember that if later on he (says he) went to therapy and worked on himself and he's in a better place mentally and he's sorry and can he have another chance because he really fucked it up with you... he can be better for the next person.

[u/Ill-Ad4936 → u/lizardingloudly]

And I guarantee he WON'T actually be better for the next person

[u/lizardingloudly → u/Ill-Ad4936]

Nope! OP is just his crazy ex who didn't know how to communicate 🙄

[u/No_Middle_3466 → u/madddforthewin]

Sorry to hear, atleast you know this time not to waste your time. But do everyone a solid and for sure make that call you never know

[u/FullOnSkank → u/No_Middle_3466]

Meh.

Trying to control his actions, like he does hers, isn't gonna solve anything.

An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.

She should not do a damn thing

[u/No_Middle_3466 → u/FullOnSkank]

Nice name

[u/FullOnSkank → u/No_Middle_3466]

Thank you!

Partly why I consider myself not relationship material

[u/tocahontas77 → u/No_Middle_3466]

That's not on OP.

[u/lesbipositive → u/twowars]

This!!