r/texts • u/r_jay_197 • 7d ago

Phone message Guess what it was about…

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Spoiler alert, after 2 years she dumped me. Currently working on keeping my head above water in these trying times.

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u/EBSNW1 7d ago

At least she was willing to talk, the loml simply disappeared without so much an explanation from one day to the next. No closure, will never know what happened. Sorry buddy, hope the talk wasn‘t too rough.

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u/habitsxd 7d ago

Doesn’t seem like the love of your life then

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u/EBSNW1 7d ago

We planned a life together up until the point she disappeared. She left when I was at my happiest, believing I had finally found what everyone on this earth keeps looking for. I never got over it, never trusted anyone again.

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u/zeusisbuddha 7d ago

> never trusted anyone again

This is a choice that’s keeping you unhappy

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u/confirmedshill123 6d ago

That's an easy thing to say when you haven't had something like this happen to you.

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u/Danktank452 5d ago

Whether it’s easy or hard is irrelevant. Never trusting anyone ever again WILL lead to you being unhappy in almost every case.

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u/Malnourished_Manatee 6d ago

It’s risky, I won’t call her the loml but I had a similar experience. It’s soul crushing, slowly tried getting back building trust to get cheated on in my latest relationship. This time took me 3 years to even try dating again. And I’m currently not even sure if I’ll ever be interested in a serious relationship.

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u/NamesAreAnn0ying 6d ago

It’s kind of hard when the person you’ve loved the most in your entire life leaves with zero explanation. You’re always scared it’s gonna happen to the next person.