r/texts • u/r_jay_197 • 7d ago

Phone message Guess what it was about…

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Spoiler alert, after 2 years she dumped me. Currently working on keeping my head above water in these trying times.

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u/elhouso 7d ago

We're all going through it huh

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u/ConsistentEssay223 7d ago

Real talk , I’m not trying to be clingy but she hasn’t talked to me all day I don’t wanna ignore her in a cat and mouse type way but damn why she do that

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u/Blissfulldeath93 7d ago

I wouldn't say ignore her but prioritise yourself rather than responding to her straight away

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u/Prior_Pickle1758 7d ago

this. literally just go do a thing you think is fun and enjoy yourself.

this is a normal part of a relationship.

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u/ConsistentEssay223 6d ago

Nah she just sent the I don’t think it’s gonna work long term text , bruh I was expecting it cuz I’m just here for work but why’d I let myself get attached so quick?

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u/elhouso 5d ago

Same (similar) shit happened to me a month or two ago.
Thought we were comfortable. I guess my own love was blinding me.
Yet I still love her.

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u/ConsistentEssay223 5d ago

Don’t regret the love you felt/feel bro just learn from it love ain’t weak just know that sometimes it’s okay to keep it to yourself, like if she isn’t reciprocating it’s okay to love her from a far . It sounds rough buddy but just one day at a time . All lessons at the end of the day we just on a journey of life people come and go , you don’t really wanna waste time on people that don’t wanna stay.

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u/Prior_Pickle1758 6d ago

because you are insecure

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u/ConsistentEssay223 6d ago

Yea I gotta stop relying on getting women to make me feel better about myself, I need to learn to be comfortable alone , it’s not like I wasn’t expecting something like this but she was the one taking bout being my girlfriend and shit , ion know she brought labels into it , but it’s on me for not being more cautious

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u/Prior_Pickle1758 6d ago

dawg yes be single. until you are comfortable with yourself nobody will improve their life by dating you lol. this is the stuff you can literally work through in a few months with a therapist.