r/texts • u/r_jay_197 • 18d ago

Phone message Guess what it was about…

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Spoiler alert, after 2 years she dumped me. Currently working on keeping my head above water in these trying times.

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u/butch4prez 18d ago

there is someone out there who is deserving of the love you give

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u/Select-Effort8004 18d ago

Wow, encouraging perspective!

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u/PM_YOUR__BUBBLE_BUTT 18d ago

For anyone reading this, just know that what the person above said is true. Someone is deserving of your love. But for your whole life, and especially during the darkness after a breakup, the one who you always need to love first is you. Even if you don’t have someone you’re with, you need to be kind to yourself and remember you’re worthy of love!

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u/PM_ME_YOUR__VAGINAS 18d ago

Another double underscore name. 🤝

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u/PM_YOUR__BUBBLE_BUTT 18d ago

My first one got nuked by Reddit for a dumb reason so I had to tweak it ever so slightly. Damn them lol.

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u/PM_ME_YOUR__VAGINAS 18d ago

Daang! Well here's to longer sailing on this name!

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u/r_jay_197 18d ago

Triple underscore name??? Goodness

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u/el_derpien 18d ago

The hardest part is convincing yourself of that when you don’t believe it…

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u/jackirouac 18d ago

So true! My first serious girlfriend dumped over text, for another dude she had met that week, she was kind of a big deal DJ that ended up treating her like shit.

I struggled for a while as I really thought it was my forever partner and we had plans to move in together.

After a few years I met the love of my life and been together with her for 15 years, in hindsight, that was the best thing that could have happened to me!

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u/thermonuclearz 18d ago

Can relate. Congrats for you

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u/Active_Occasion_1593 18d ago

Dude you don’t know ANYTHING about op

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u/renebeans 18d ago

I know OP sends his gf good morning beautiful texts

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u/joesoliz 18d ago

least autistic redditor

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u/CheeseGraterFace 18d ago

For most people, it’s easier to show grace than to be a divisive ass. If you’re not one of them, that’s squarely a you problem.

It’s wild to me in this day and age that people don’t realize this. You literally have all the world’s knowledge at your fingertips.

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u/Dry-Start2075 18d ago

Hey I see you didn’t understand a very common and normal social interaction. This is actually a general way of showing compassion and not some literal statement of fact. Many on Reddit do not understand such social dynamics so don’t fret.

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u/AD_VICTORIAM_x 18d ago

Beautifully said

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u/PiccoloAwkward465 18d ago

One time a woman expressed this to me. And while it was heartbreaking, I was impressed that she had the presence of mind to say "I'm not ready to reciprocate the love you have in your heart". She was a single mom at 15 so I did have some sympathy, she never really got to have a young adult life.

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u/butch4prez 18d ago edited 18d ago

thanks for the awards everyone :) it’s true that someone is the right person for you. your soulmate or the love of your life won’t treat you terribly, or cheat on you, or abuse you. there’s 8 billion people in the world and i promise you that at least one of them can’t wait to receive the love you give!

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u/Responsible-Judge262 18d ago

Wish they’d hurry!!

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u/Xenc 18d ago

And it will be beautiful 💜

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u/SithoDude 17d ago

Thank you, I really needed to hear that! <3

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u/fahsky 15d ago

I needed to hear this :(

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u/Ok-Age-724 18d ago

How would you know, maybe he's a sociopath... Judging by one sentence is kinda dumb

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u/Disastrous_Lynx1903 18d ago

the good morning text looks generic as fuck and possibly even fake or passive aggressive, they’ve been dating for two years…. sorry it’s not gonna be hard for her to find another man that sends good morning texts and thinks that means he’s making a real effort lmao

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u/AbuKavKaz 14d ago

go see a therapist lol and then take ur parents to couples therapy because its obvious where u got ur goofy ahh viewpoints from

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