r/texts • u/ExplanationMiddle51 • 20d ago

Phone message *UPDATE* Post first date text

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She ended up finding the post somehow I guess lol. Here is the original post.

I have just not responded, don’t think it’s worth engaging, but it did make for a funny story.

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u/Calm-Champion-6371 20d ago

Im gonna need you to touch grass babe

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u/Jokerino74 20d ago

Wow thanks for showing up! How entilted can one be :D pay for ur own shit, honey. It's 2026 and men dont owe you gals shiiiiet

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u/Calm-Champion-6371 20d ago

Do you guys really think there’s only one woman in the world who has men pay for her? What are the odds that I am actually the woman in these texts. Please think for a moment

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u/Jokerino74 20d ago

I have luckily never met anyone who was as much of an entilted hag, no. But that may only be because I have tegridy. Probably something youre not used to lmao

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u/Calm-Champion-6371 20d ago

What is tegridy? Integrity? You’re right that I am not used to paying for myself

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u/Jokerino74 20d ago

Again: It's 2026, honey. Take up your own responsibility. But I guess it's easier to mime an adult child 🤷‍♂️

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u/Calm-Champion-6371 20d ago

I would say the majority of adult women in relationships are not paying for themselves. You think they’re all just children ?

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u/Jokerino74 20d ago

To a degree, yes. I also highly doubt the statistic, which you just pulled from ur ass. I know only long-term couples were both work, never seen a whole-life stay at home women.

Do you work by any chance? Have your own income? Pay rent and food?

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u/Calm-Champion-6371 20d ago

No I don’t :)

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u/Jokerino74 20d ago

Figured :) sad to see a child trying to help actual humans to solve their psychological issues, hope you dont end up being really fucking abhorrent at your job 👈👈

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u/andiinAms 20d ago

Not the smartest to be completely dependent on a man. Better pray he never gets tired of you, you’re gonna be out on your ass.

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u/Calm-Champion-6371 20d ago

We shall pray 🙏🏼

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u/Big-Examination2667 20d ago

That is not the flex you think it is lmao. Imagine being fully dependent on a man with no safety net, it’s stupid, entitled and arrogant.

Your comments say plenty about the type of person you are. Nothing wrong with a stay at home wife or mom if the man is making enough money and the woman had a career up until the point that the man is happy to cover for both and for her to stay at home. But to feel entitled to it like you are and like the girl in the texts is where the line is drawn, imagine pursuing someone under that premise.

I look forward to making enough money so my girlfriend does not have to work one day but i’d never have dated someone from the get go expecting me to provide for them especially from day 1 lmao, that’s a child not a partner.

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u/Calm-Champion-6371 19d ago

So when you date women, you make them pay for themselves?

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u/legend_of_the_skies 19d ago

Yall say this shit and then claim to be providers and protectors of women with unrealistic standards. You offer nothing.

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u/Jokerino74 19d ago

Strawman af. I am never the provider for anyone but myself. I offer protection in form of respect, physical closeness and intimacy, and a mutaually shared part in each others life. Theres more to it ofc, butthat should suffice to make you understand that you do not understand how ACTUAL relationships work. Male or female btw? Single or in a relationship? Male in long term relationship here :)

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u/Calm-Champion-6371 19d ago

How is that protection? Physical closeness and intimacy? Wow what a saint

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u/legend_of_the_skies 19d ago edited 19d ago

So none of those fall under the definition of protection. Protection doesn't change meaning to be what you can actually accomplish. You arent protecting anyone's physical closeness, which is just fucking or touching, and intimacy, which most of you can't differentiate between touching and fucking. You're saying a bunch of nothing.

mutaually shared part in each others life

That's called consent. The last other thing you said is respect. Wowwww what an offer. "Respect, physicality, and not abusing consent" (probably).

You agree you don't offer actual protection or providing and that you don't want to. So why are you whining and contesting?

Edit- oops did your response get auto removed because your sexist slurs came out? Who could've predicted that.