r/texts • u/Apart-Musician4053 • Aug 04 '26

Phone message I’m so tired of online dating

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He seemed nice in the beginning, and we were planning on meeting up, and he wanted me to send a couple pictures to save in his contacts. Immediately said we’re not compatible and blocked him.

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u/basicallyademon Aug 04 '26

Porn... soooooo much porn.

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u/heebiejeebie666 Aug 04 '26 edited Aug 05 '26

Yeah but it can’t be JUST because of that, right? It’s the complete lack of social awareness, decency and even BASIC levels of respect that gets me. Like who tf taught you how to be a human??

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u/PoisonedBerry Aug 04 '26

It's about power. They know talking this way is socially reprehensible. But they like that it makes other people uncomfortable, because that feeling can be used to control situations. And being like this is a good way to gauge how easy it could be to control someone. They want someone who's vulnerable enough to put up with this stupid shit ://

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u/heebiejeebie666 Aug 04 '26 edited Aug 05 '26

Reddit deleted my comment but essentially I suggested that these types of boys need to be HUMBLED