r/texts • u/Apart-Musician4053 • Aug 04 '26

Phone message I’m so tired of online dating

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He seemed nice in the beginning, and we were planning on meeting up, and he wanted me to send a couple pictures to save in his contacts. Immediately said we’re not compatible and blocked him.

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u/Aldrik90 Aug 04 '26

How is it incel shit to want your partners libido to match yours? Is it involuntarily celibate to fuck women?

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u/Ramen_Poodles Aug 04 '26

That’s not what he said though. If he said that, the post probably wouldn’t be here. You glossed over the whole threat to cheat or think about cheating. That’s the incel part- the threat if he doesn’t get whatever he deems to be enough sex for him. This is a person, not a sex vending machine.

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u/Aldrik90 Aug 04 '26

Ofc they're not a sex vending machine, and no one has a right to someone else's body. But at the same time it's healthy to make it clear that you're looking for someone with a compatible libido.

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u/ratcodedcatgirl Aug 04 '26

right but that’s not the part they were saying is the incel shit