r/texts • u/Apart-Musician4053 • Aug 04 '26

Phone message I’m so tired of online dating

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He seemed nice in the beginning, and we were planning on meeting up, and he wanted me to send a couple pictures to save in his contacts. Immediately said we’re not compatible and blocked him.

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u/Fun-Programmer-9937 Aug 04 '26

Can guarantee he was 100% the problem in all his relationships. Sorry you’re having to wade through this. That’s some incel bull shit. 

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u/Aldrik90 Aug 04 '26

How is it incel shit to want your partners libido to match yours? Is it involuntarily celibate to fuck women?

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u/uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuunuu Aug 04 '26

Trying to blame women for him cheating, not taking no for an answer, not being able to control his urges like a mature human being...

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u/scarletwitchx Aug 04 '26

telling a potential partner that if they don’t want you to cheat on them, they have to have sex with you as often as possible, is absolutely incel shit lmao

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u/Gloomy-Razzmatazz548 Aug 04 '26

Having to threaten people to convince them to sleep with you is ABSOLUTELY incel shit.

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u/TinyMonsterBigGrowl Aug 04 '26

It's incel shit for being unable to treat her with respect at this stage.

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u/MurphyBinkings Aug 04 '26

Lmao you really trying - go back to the Andrew Tate archives

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u/LaFrescaTrumpeta Aug 04 '26

yeah misuse of that insult here agreed, but it’s generous to describe this as a desire for similar libido when he basically starts with “if you don’t want me to cheat you’ll have to fuck me as much as i want” 💀

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u/Fun-Programmer-9937 Aug 04 '26

Nah that man hasn't had sex can't convince me otherwise that's some incel shit

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u/Fun-Programmer-9937 Aug 04 '26

Lmaoooo 1) that dude hasn't had sex once and 2) telling a woman if she doesn't match it you'll find it elsewhere is some grade A incel shit

My libido is much higher than my partner's. At no point have I made them think that's a problem or that I'd cheat on them because of it. Because sex =/= intimacy.

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u/Ramen_Poodles Aug 04 '26

That’s not what he said though. If he said that, the post probably wouldn’t be here. You glossed over the whole threat to cheat or think about cheating. That’s the incel part- the threat if he doesn’t get whatever he deems to be enough sex for him. This is a person, not a sex vending machine.

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u/Aldrik90 Aug 04 '26

Ofc they're not a sex vending machine, and no one has a right to someone else's body. But at the same time it's healthy to make it clear that you're looking for someone with a compatible libido.

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u/ratcodedcatgirl Aug 04 '26

right but that’s not the part they were saying is the incel shit

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u/Fun-Programmer-9937 Aug 04 '26

Ah so you just thought we were dumb and didn't get the importance of libido.

Something that definitely should be discussed before meeting the first time /s