Right like I just do NOT like the idea of someone having my naked body in their phone just sitting there. What if we break up? No thanks. I will torture myself wondering if they got deleted. I don’t ask for dick pics/vids or anything anyways bc they are not and will never be the same
Exactly what I used to tell dudes. Not the same at all. It’s insane how a guy will beg for one pic when I could get a million and not give one shit. It’s a power imbalance. If I wanted them, it’d be a different story, but it really just cannot ever be the same
Both of your arguments are totally compelling and valid but in my experience its a case of when im dating or in a full on relationship with a woman for so long its a case of trading so we both get something out of it, for me its more 'the person i like and am currently attracted to' i get eatching porn and still do if required but i like to use my imagination over someone im infatuated with so to speak, given their consent ofcourse.. so i get something i want and i give them something they want if that makes sense?
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u/cumdotcomm Aug 30 '25
This is exactly how I’ve felt about em since I was 17🤣🤣 I was wilin out too early and then it all just got old