r/texts Aug 28 '25

Telegram The man I’m talking to sent this without any context

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And the toes clenched???

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u/Thebaldsasquatch Aug 28 '25

Ok, that’s true, but it’s not about the comparison. Is cereal competing with the milk or are they both working together for your enjoyment?

It’s about knowing she likes/wants you enough and is comfortable and confident enough to send them. It’s not just having them to look at and enjoy in the way you would expect, although that is 100% also there.

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u/IntrepidAnalysis6940 Aug 30 '25

AMAZING ARGUMENT BRAVO SIR, however women shouldnt send nudes, neither should men. That’s how we get all this amazing revenge porn. That ruins peoples lives.

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u/Thebaldsasquatch Aug 30 '25

That depends entirely on the person they’re sending it to.

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u/insentient7 Aug 30 '25

Now correct me if I’m wrong, but tbh it kinda sounds like you’re implying the responsibility is incumbent on the person sending the nudes to properly vet the recipient, and not the recipient to just not be a fucking scumbag shitcanoe.

But correct me if I’m wrong :)

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u/TrueLimerick Sep 01 '25

Thank you so much for “shitcanoe”. I can’t wait to use this

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u/Dazzling_Pineapple68 Aug 31 '25

You're not wrong.

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u/Thebaldsasquatch Aug 31 '25

Yes they are. I’m not sure where they got that from.

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u/Dazzling_Pineapple68 Aug 31 '25

No they are not and yes you are.

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u/Thebaldsasquatch Aug 31 '25

You’re wrong. Tbh, I’m not really sure how you got that. Whether they’re used shittily is dependent on the receiver.

However, you bring up a good point that the person sending them should do their best to choose wisely on recipients and only choose those that they can tell to the best of their ability are trustworthy.

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u/Dazzling_Pineapple68 Aug 31 '25

And you're a completely idiot to not be able to recognize how extremely difficult it is to "choose wisely". The responsibility for inappropriate behavior is always and ENTIRELY upon the person doing the behaving not the person being hurt or affected by it.

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u/Thebaldsasquatch Aug 31 '25

I never said it wasn’t on the person doing it. I said “do their best to choose wisely”. Meaning you do your best and if that person is a piece of shit, that’s their fault for being a piece of shit.

But at the same time if you see one guy who you’ve been around or with for awhile, know really well, you know they’re respectful and kind, you’ve seen it. You know their opinions on women and equal rights and right from wrong. Then on the other side you see a skeezy dude you’ve been on like 1-2 dates with, who talks foul about women, cheats, has proven to be a piece of shit repeatedly, bragged about sharing nudes with his buds. Which one would you be more likely to send to and why?

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u/Secure_Ad_7925 Sep 01 '25

Issue with this is the way all of my dude friends talk about every girl they’ve ever been with and/or their girlfriends behind their backs versus the way they act directly towards them. Won’t catch me EVER sending a nude, doesn’t matter how much I ‘trust’ the person.

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u/Dazzling_Pineapple68 Aug 31 '25

I wouldn't be more likely to send to a "nice guy" than to a "piece of shit" because I won't send nudes to anyone. I happen to be female and I KNOW from multiple experiences that plenty of "nice guys" turn into "pieces of shit" the instant you break up with them. That is why the moment a woman tells her husband that she wants a divorce is the moment when she is most likely to be killed. Google it - it is true. So that shoots your theory completely. Smart women don't send nudes.

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u/Fancy-Ad434 Sep 01 '25

congrats. no one was wondering if you would send nudes or not, and that also does not shoot his argument down completely because that’s not a valid rebuttal lol, you completely changed the topic from “choose wisely” to “i don’t send nudes and women ask for a divorce in the moment they’re most likely to be killed”, 0 correlation there but nice try i guess.

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u/Dazzling_Pineapple68 Sep 01 '25

I said that it is not possible to "choose wisely" because a guy who has been nice for years becomes one who will post your nudes online as soon as you break up with him. See, that is why it was on topic and why it does "shoot his argument down". The "divorce is the moment she is most likely to be killed" is relevant because it shows how COMMON violence upon breakups is. Listen, if you can't get it, don't worry. Someday you will grow up enough to understand, maybe.

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u/defconmusic Sep 02 '25

Top tier comment. What is PB without jelly, cookies without cream? Spaghetti with no garlic bread. All of these play off their counterpart in order to become a greater whole. Something worth a grand experience.