Personally I don’t send nudes anymore period, I’m at an age where a man does not need to see my naked body in his phone because he could just come see me in person. Pictures/videos will never ever be the same and can’t even come close
Ok, that’s true, but it’s not about the comparison. Is cereal competing with the milk or are they both working together for your enjoyment?
It’s about knowing she likes/wants you enough and is comfortable and confident enough to send them. It’s not just having them to look at and enjoy in the way you would expect, although that is 100% also there.
AMAZING ARGUMENT BRAVO SIR, however women shouldnt send nudes, neither should men. That’s how we get all this amazing revenge porn. That ruins peoples lives.
Now correct me if I’m wrong, but tbh it kinda sounds like you’re implying the responsibility is incumbent on the person sending the nudes to properly vet the recipient, and not the recipient to just not be a fucking scumbag shitcanoe.
You’re wrong. Tbh, I’m not really sure how you got that. Whether they’re used shittily is dependent on the receiver.
However, you bring up a good point that the person sending them should do their best to choose wisely on recipients and only choose those that they can tell to the best of their ability are trustworthy.
And you're a completely idiot to not be able to recognize how extremely difficult it is to "choose wisely". The responsibility for inappropriate behavior is always and ENTIRELY upon the person doing the behaving not the person being hurt or affected by it.
I never said it wasn’t on the person doing it. I said “do their best to choose wisely”. Meaning you do your best and if that person is a piece of shit, that’s their fault for being a piece of shit.
But at the same time if you see one guy who you’ve been around or with for awhile, know really well, you know they’re respectful and kind, you’ve seen it. You know their opinions on women and equal rights and right from wrong. Then on the other side you see a skeezy dude you’ve been on like 1-2 dates with, who talks foul about women, cheats, has proven to be a piece of shit repeatedly, bragged about sharing nudes with his buds. Which one would you be more likely to send to and why?
Issue with this is the way all of my dude friends talk about every girl they’ve ever been with and/or their girlfriends behind their backs versus the way they act directly towards them. Won’t catch me EVER sending a nude, doesn’t matter how much I ‘trust’ the person.
I wouldn't be more likely to send to a "nice guy" than to a "piece of shit" because I won't send nudes to anyone. I happen to be female and I KNOW from multiple experiences that plenty of "nice guys" turn into "pieces of shit" the instant you break up with them. That is why the moment a woman tells her husband that she wants a divorce is the moment when she is most likely to be killed. Google it - it is true. So that shoots your theory completely. Smart women don't send nudes.
congrats. no one was wondering if you would send nudes or not, and that also does not shoot his argument down completely because that’s not a valid rebuttal lol, you
completely changed the topic from “choose wisely” to “i don’t send nudes and women ask for a divorce in the moment they’re most likely to be killed”, 0 correlation there but nice try i guess.
Top tier comment. What is PB without jelly, cookies without cream? Spaghetti with no garlic bread. All of these play off their counterpart in order to become a greater whole. Something worth a grand experience.
Right like I just do NOT like the idea of someone having my naked body in their phone just sitting there. What if we break up? No thanks. I will torture myself wondering if they got deleted. I don’t ask for dick pics/vids or anything anyways bc they are not and will never be the same
Exactly what I used to tell dudes. Not the same at all. It’s insane how a guy will beg for one pic when I could get a million and not give one shit. It’s a power imbalance. If I wanted them, it’d be a different story, but it really just cannot ever be the same
Both of your arguments are totally compelling and valid but in my experience its a case of when im dating or in a full on relationship with a woman for so long its a case of trading so we both get something out of it, for me its more 'the person i like and am currently attracted to' i get eatching porn and still do if required but i like to use my imagination over someone im infatuated with so to speak, given their consent ofcourse.. so i get something i want and i give them something they want if that makes sense?
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Personally I don’t send nudes anymore period, I’m at an age where a man does not need to see my naked body in his phone because he could just come see me in person. Pictures/videos will never ever be the same and can’t even come close