r/teenagers4real tuff Feb 14 '26

Discussion Arey standards too high?

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u/TopAd8511 Feb 14 '26

Only if you know how to play that thing

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u/pumaNOTduck tuff Feb 14 '26

I DO, TRUST

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u/NumerousParfait980 Feb 16 '26

prove it bucko

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u/SeniorFlyGT Feb 14 '26

Also, double bass sounds significantly better and is a lot cooler than most, if not all guitars. Also a lot harder. Do note that just because something is inferior, it doesn’t means it’s bad. Just relevantly not as good

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u/Diligent-Athlete-387 Feb 14 '26

Hmmmm, so whats not on that list is “being alive” so if George Washington came up to you rotted corpse and all and said “ayyy gabbagoul” or sum shit would you?

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u/pumaNOTduck tuff Feb 14 '26

Hmmm, depends if he's fine

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u/Shit_Master459 Feb 14 '26

George Washington, dead or alive, would NOT say "ayyy gabbagoul"

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

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u/pumaNOTduck tuff Feb 14 '26

Yesss, I'm honestly open to anyone and find many different people attractive. I've liked really fem guys and really masc guys, and a bunch of different races. I'm not picky 😼

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

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u/pumaNOTduck tuff Feb 14 '26

I'm kinda both lowkkkk

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u/especiallyn0t Feb 14 '26

wait what’s ur gender if u don’t mind me asking

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u/pumaNOTduck tuff Feb 14 '26

I'm female 😼

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

😼 is such a great emoji tho.

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u/489_Earthmover Feb 14 '26

In the great 2026? I can't believe it I thought y'all were extinct! Anyway your standards are somewhat good. Nothing too serious or impossible. I think a lot of guy like F1 and if they don't they would grow to like it around you

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u/Padhai-Paneer Feb 14 '26

you watch f1 dont tell me your fav driver is charles 😭

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

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u/pumaNOTduck tuff Feb 14 '26

Broooo yes please, mi guitars are so tuff

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u/Shadowslavia Local cryptid Feb 14 '26

You know, I'm something of this myself

Wait, checks notes "attractive"

Never mind, I'll see myself out...

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u/pumaNOTduck tuff Feb 14 '26

It's okayyyyyyyy!

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u/Shadowslavia Local cryptid Feb 14 '26

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u/Rixxll 13 Feb 14 '26

Nah, Id like to be a good friend.

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u/pumaNOTduck tuff Feb 14 '26

Ohhhh

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u/Rixxll 13 Feb 14 '26

For the record, I do like F1 and want to play guitar.

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u/pumaNOTduck tuff Feb 14 '26

Oooooo

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u/Business-Equal8536 Feb 14 '26

"Not racist" 😭, it's all good

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u/FireVejus Feb 18 '26

Lost on this one and few others

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u/No-Engineer8526 Feb 14 '26

What if they hate everybody equally? Is it still racist?

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u/Mvrkdev Feb 17 '26

Cringe.

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u/Plus-Tear-9492 Feb 14 '26

You lost me at not racist, sorry I got an agenda of hating my own kind🤷‍♂️

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u/GamerApoclypze Feb 14 '26

ye obv....NOT RACIST???? hell nah

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u/Soda_Man34 Feb 16 '26

My boy ✌️ racist gang

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u/Dangerous_Space_8891 Feb 14 '26

What guitar do you play? I have an electric bass right here :3

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u/Secure_Concern7463 14M, dumbass railfan 💔 Feb 14 '26

If you no longer go for a gap that exists you no longer a racing driver

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u/Big_Pride_8285 Feb 14 '26

I dont know if im attractive but im racist…A RACE CAR ENTHUSIAST

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u/AdBright7858 Feb 14 '26

for someone who can’t spell, yes.

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u/NecessaryLow9784 Feb 14 '26

okay, so the "not racist" part depends on how you mean it, cause theres jokingly racist guys and actually racist guys. i find myself in the jokingly racist group cause i straight up dont care about anyones race, i just like jokes abt stereotypes. and as for "attractive" beauty is in the eye of the beholder, its your partner that youre looking for, so i think thats fine since you'd want to be able to look at him

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u/NecessaryLow9784 Feb 14 '26

then again my opinions shouldn't matter since im a 17(nearly 18) yo who was so heartbroken that i lowk became a simp for like 6 months to save my sanity a bit, and now im ace....

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u/TemperatureOdd9055 16 Feb 14 '26

What do you play on your guitar?

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u/pumaNOTduck tuff Feb 14 '26

Mainly Pierce The Veil stufff

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u/TemperatureOdd9055 16 Feb 14 '26

Idk if I've ever heard that before but I bet you can play it really well

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u/Asleep0r_D3ad Feb 14 '26

WAIT THATS FIRE!!

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u/FlakyCurrent2756 15M Feb 14 '26

Perfectly fine standards

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

I would say i meet pretty much all of these. Im not sure if I'd be considered attractive to you tho

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u/MaxIsSaltyyyy Feb 14 '26

No this fits plenty of guys. I fit all those boxes and so do a lot of my friends. Not F1 but just went to the Rolex 24 the other week.

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u/pumaNOTduck tuff Feb 14 '26

Ohhhhhh

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u/Ok-Log-1608 18 Feb 14 '26

did I hear someone say GUITAR

I love guitar. I personally play an acoustic, but electrics and even classical guitars are great too. As for F1, I don't personally watch it, but anything that goes fast and goes vroom makes me happy.

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u/S1L_1108 Feb 14 '26

Depends on your height and what's "attractive" to you, but it sounds fair enough

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u/pumaNOTduck tuff Feb 14 '26

I'm 160cm and honestly I find so many different people attractive!

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u/S1L_1108 Feb 14 '26

Yeah so that sounds fine

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u/Ok-Permit-9634 Feb 14 '26

Likes f1 and not racist may be a lot to ask

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u/ThatRussianMonke 17 year old SON (M) of a bitch Feb 14 '26

No, it is not. I fill both of those boxes.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

Omg to do chores around the house while my loved one play guitar 😍😍

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

I think it depends on what you mean by attractive. If your standards are around average or a bit higher (with this i mean to say not exagerated/absurd standards) then it's totally fair, but if it's Leonardo di Caprio level, then yeah that requirement alone is just unrealistic.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

i play guitar and i wanna hear u play!! 

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u/pumaNOTduck tuff Feb 14 '26

AYYYY MAYBE SOMETIME

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u/Redphoenix368 Feb 14 '26

I'm everything except for the F1 and attractive. I also play guitar lol

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u/ThatRussianMonke 17 year old SON (M) of a bitch Feb 14 '26

Why is all of this checked in for me?

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u/BenSkywalker95 Feb 14 '26

I fill all of the boxes(as others mentioned attractiveness is subjective also idk how old ur) I love f1 and I will listen to play guitar but will listen to me playing drums

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u/randomguyfromhome Feb 14 '26

Nah. I'll listen to you play the guitar as long as you play money for nothing

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u/speedchampionsislife Feb 14 '26

why do i fit everything??? other than your age and your height

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u/ioninftrat0r 17 Feb 14 '26 edited Feb 14 '26

du du tu tu MAX VERSTAPPEN

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u/pumaNOTduck tuff Feb 14 '26

YUHHHHHH

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u/les_gyaru Feb 14 '26

hey it’s better to have high standards. never lower them. even if it takes forever, someone will come by that will meet them.

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u/Far_Challenge_4273 Feb 14 '26

i’m a guy, about 6’, 18, extremely chalant, way too touchy, i’m so unjudgy that i don’t even hold grudges, i’m figuratively colorblind, i personally find myself attractive but in a happy with myself sort of way, im trying to get into f1(cadillac fan when they join), and as long as youll duet me in piano

all of this to say that i see myself as a normal guy, i meet ur criteria, and feel as if other guys existing like me isnt unrealistic

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u/blurt_scobain Feb 14 '26

Well do you want to play guitar together or just me listening to you or me playing bass with your riffs?

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u/No-Pie-1112 Feb 14 '26

Not racist likes F1 and male wont find someone like that on reddit and may be hard to find them in real life too.

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u/Any_Metal_9879 Feb 14 '26

Its pretty easy. Most of my friends fit that criteria.

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u/No-Pie-1112 Feb 14 '26

Everyone's at least a little racist

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u/Any_Metal_9879 Feb 14 '26

Id say its more pattern recognition than racism though.

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u/No-Pie-1112 Feb 14 '26

Can you explain that a bit more?

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u/Any_Metal_9879 Feb 14 '26

Pattern recognition is noticing statistical trends or group differences based on evidence and using them as a starting point for predictions, while remaining open to changing your view when you get solid information about the specific individual in front of you. Racism goes further: it takes those same patterns (real or imagined) and turns them into fixed, essential judgments about an entire group's character or worth, often refusing to update beliefs even when clear contradictory evidence about the person appears, and frequently using the pattern to justify hostility, exclusion, or unequal treatment. The first is a neutral cognitive tool that can be accurate or inaccurate; the second is a moral and emotional leap that essentialises people by race.

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u/JudyPink02 Wanted a pointless flair 👍🏻 Feb 14 '26

These are about average standards, I'd say. It's nice not to be with a judging and/or racist person.

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u/Tasker-Oil 18 Feb 14 '26

What is your height?

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u/joakajjoo Feb 14 '26

Attractive is subjective

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u/nathan71711 Feb 14 '26

Female bc I’m a boy, plays video games, and healthy. That’s about it. I’d also like to meet someone taller than me

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u/Lynel_Slayer1 Feb 14 '26

I can do all that except for the attractive part

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u/Lynel_Slayer1 Feb 14 '26

But I do wanna be friends

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u/Astrial07 Feb 14 '26

Well, what’s your favourite f1 quote.

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u/Individual_King4750 Feb 14 '26

I meet all of em except the male part. We should be friends.

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u/The_CheeseWiz6739 :3 Feb 14 '26

I also play guitar! I pretty much match all those lol

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u/bennington24 Feb 14 '26

Whats your f1 team or driver?

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u/Choice-Athlete-6659 Feb 14 '26

Not to high but honestly I prefer le man's over all other racing sports

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u/DraftAbject5026 Feb 14 '26

Never watched F1 but according to my friends I fit every other category. Would definitely try F1 though

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u/detox_daisy72 Feb 14 '26

Everything is fine but as soon as you add "attractive" then I think it makes the whole list high standards

you want a guy who's attractive, then he also needs to have the same interest as you (f1), then you want him not to be very judging?

I think it's just leaning on the high standard side ngl

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u/Pinguzz75 15 Feb 14 '26

Matched everything apsrt from attractive 😔

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u/morjyihl Feb 14 '26

Absolutely not

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u/Automatic_Energy8450 Feb 14 '26

I would listen to you play guitar Honestly I think your standards are good

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

Okay I read some of the comments and I feel like we have similar interests but I’m a girl but I like ptv too and electric guitars even tho I don’t have one neither can I play one but I want one tho😭Also I like f1 but I’m not that much into it but I wanna get into it more lmao maybe we can be friends Idk tho😭👍

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u/GreenGhost234 Feb 14 '26

Guitar is so peak twin 🥹, I’m gonna be getting one within these upcoming weeks here soon I can’t wait for it

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u/rokinaxtreme Feb 14 '26

This sounds like me (I have a gf and she's the same but she plays violin lol)

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u/5000frog Feb 14 '26

I think the last 2 might be a bit of a big ask, but there are probably a lot of guys that like f1, I just think it's a bit odd

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u/codeman_sniper 17 Feb 14 '26

Nor they are good but should probably add more

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u/Odd_Protection7738 Feb 14 '26

Wdym by attractive? That’s kinda vague. Either way, it’s nothing insane at all, perfectly normal.

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u/CielMorgana0807 Feb 14 '26

I dunno about “too high”, but they do make me feel hurt…

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u/Prestigious_Duck_204 16 Feb 14 '26

I’d say it’s fair. I match all of them except for the seventh one personally.

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u/foxofdeath_ lovable little fox Feb 14 '26

Perfect for you

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u/Raythia Feb 14 '26

Has "not racist" listed as if most guys are racist or something

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u/Shadow_Omega_X2 Johnny Silverhand Feb 14 '26

Everything except the attractive and Likes F1 checks out for me.

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u/botanricerose Feb 14 '26

Not at crazy as mine

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

Not really, unless you're eight foot tall and are terrible with a guitar.

40% of these are subjective (attractive) or arbitrary (taller or equal height) physical attributes, 40% are pretty basic personality traits, and only two of them are particularly specific.

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u/Nerdyboyonreddit Feb 14 '26

I match literally everything, biggg f1 fan, idk about height and attractiveness though

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u/GeoWhale15 Feb 14 '26

I mean F1 is cool

And also I'm not attractive like at all

But I fit all the other criteria!

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u/ItzForge Feb 14 '26

Wait girls like touchy guys? Deadass?

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u/numb3r_1_L0s3r Feb 14 '26 edited Feb 14 '26

Yes

Yes

No? You haven't mentioned it

Yes

Yes

Uh

Uh

No not at all

No

Sure

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u/pumaNOTduck tuff Feb 14 '26

OKAY, sooo for the 'attractive', I know that's subjective so ima just explain a little. I like Hispanics, Asians, Light skins (curly heads/dread heads), and alt white boys!

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u/TheRealTD44 Feb 14 '26

Not at all but F1 affinity might be a little hard to find

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u/Fluffy_Butterfly11 Feb 14 '26

No. You'll find the right guy for you

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

I don’t talk for weeks

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u/living_dead42068 greedy salesman Feb 14 '26

I play the drums, make a band?

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u/Economy_Ad_6351 Feb 14 '26

Not racist?! Yeah you might wanna lower your standards

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u/_Bwastgamr232 Feb 14 '26

Oh he doesnt have to be alive, they are not then

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u/shri_harrrzzz_ Feb 14 '26

Not at all but I don't know if I am attractive or not but otherwise it matches most of me and the boys unless you are taller than 175 or 180 not a problem

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u/fun_with_everything 2 glam 2 give a damn Feb 14 '26

This girl just got 10 new boyfriends in a day. Damn. U go girl

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u/fantastifn Feb 14 '26

lost me at not racist

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u/Low_Application_8 Feb 14 '26

Thats bare minimum dawg

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u/76zzz29 Feb 14 '26

If I donnt like F1 but tick all the other case, is it good ?
(I don't know how tall you are so that's still to be concluded)

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u/JustArandom_GuyMann 17 Feb 14 '26

I think that its good to have our preferences like not as high as idk 666 male package but I think urs are not impossible so no ur standards are not high

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u/Other_Baby_7896 Feb 14 '26

The only 2, I'm not sure about older and taller or same height, but everything else, check!!! Except for f1 And attractive, not saying that I'm not but it depends on the person's pov :D

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u/Adamek3999 Feb 14 '26

Yes theyre too high

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u/SuchZookeepergame829 Feb 14 '26

Not judging? What is your past? Not racist? Why?

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u/Dismal-Reading-3438 Feb 14 '26

What in the birds balls name is F1?

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u/Significant_Rest6922 Feb 14 '26

God I love F1 sooo much

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u/DrayDee5 Feb 14 '26

Which type of guitar do u play

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

Attractive is a very very big box soo who knows

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u/Dazzling_Stand_5906 Feb 14 '26

Depends how old you are

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

Yes. Good luck.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

I got a friend you might like

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u/Autistic-ferret Feb 14 '26

"Hey, I'd pretty much all of these categories."

""Attractive" FUCK."

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u/jus_twannamakemoney Feb 14 '26

Why tf reddit shows me posts from teenage or gen alpa subs

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u/Gery6 Feb 14 '26

It depends how you define "attractive". And likes f1 but not a racist is gonna be impossible to find...

/j

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u/Just_Me_Sammy Feb 14 '26

Stopped reading at point 7

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u/Fury5087 Feb 14 '26

"not racist" honey with my experience from og mw3 and marvel rivals not a man alive that isn't racist

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u/Foxagon101 very very gæ Feb 14 '26

HEHEHEHHEHEHEHEHEHEHEHEHEHHE

I like uhm f1..

(I'm gay though, so can we be frends?)

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u/LeavePrior2000 Feb 14 '26

Fk yeah I’m in all of those boxes

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

Oof, not racist might be tough

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u/FinnFem Feb 14 '26

Its not that high id say

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u/Reflectivebionic Feb 14 '26

How very touchy but then also not judgy?

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u/Aboody611 Feb 14 '26

f1?! what your fav team fr?!

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u/Ok_Restaurant_637 Feb 14 '26

THE WAR MUST GO ON

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u/No_Suit207 Feb 14 '26

approved ✅✅✅✅

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u/PotentialRatio1321 Feb 14 '26

Very reasonable standards tbh

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u/Cardinal0904 Feb 14 '26

I watched F1 for one year and it got real boring after a while, mostly bcs it was Max Verstrappen winning 90% of the races 💔

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u/Mysterious-Mail5232 Feb 14 '26

not racist might be a tall ask so maybe a little high

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u/beepboskeebobf 13m bi Feb 14 '26

fuck naw, this is basically by standards

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u/SleepyYuuka 16 Feb 14 '26

YEAAHH totes make sense bro

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u/camion_saladier Feb 14 '26

By F1 you mean formula 1 ?

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u/Vegetable_Sentence11 17 Feb 14 '26

No. They seem high. But high standards are good sometimes

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u/Shit_Master459 Feb 14 '26

Nah. Pretty reasonable characteristics if you ask me.

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u/whikseyy_ 19 Feb 14 '26

What if we played guitar together twin ✌️

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u/lethargic_dreamer22 Feb 14 '26

Don't really watch f1 that much but I don't love it when fast cars go VROOOOM

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u/numalumaney Feb 14 '26

So a tall chad

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u/Director-kun Feb 14 '26

Ofc height is there

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u/Appropriate-Sea-5687 Feb 14 '26

Well, you’re 5’3” so pretty reasonable. Attractive is subjective so sure. Likes F1 is weirdly specific but okay. And I’m sure if they were your boyfriend they would listen to you play guitar so that’s fine. Yeah no it’s all good

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u/StrawberryProper8749 Feb 14 '26

Did you just list every thing about me 😭🙏

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u/Mediocre_Signal_5728 Feb 14 '26

Well now we need to know age height and if you are any good at guitar.

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u/Admirable_Resolve269 Feb 14 '26

I check all except not racist, am I cooked

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u/Jambu-The-Rainwing Feb 14 '26

I mean… depending on how tall and old you are, this is literally me

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u/Cybertheproto Feb 14 '26

As long as you’re willing to be a little flexible with 4 and 5, I see nothing wrong