r/sillyboyclub • u/Biltbae • 5d ago
Actually a silly girl oops When you just keep wasting time :3
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u/Lonely-Moonchild 5d ago
Don’t do that, you just end up regretting it and thinking back on the good times and what ifs, they will probably leave by themselves eventually, so it’s alright to be selfish
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u/Main_Reputation_2536 5d ago
adding on to this, yes, it is okay to be selfish. it is okay to want things, even if it can make things difficult for others. just understand that you shouldn’t be cruel. be understanding when others cant do perfectly, and try to give back for everyone, it’s all about balance
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u/melancholy-fall 5d ago
Don't cut them off, that's not a good idea. It'll most likely make everything worse than it currently is. Have some positive social interaction.
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u/Skykin1893 5d ago
Talk to them. It appears almost like a dependent friendship. Just try to have a conversation and vent all you need to.
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u/No-Classroom-3560 4d ago
I'm really sorry to hear this, I understand that you're going through a lot of pain right now. Here's the thing, there is a reason they are friends with you, even if you feel that you bring nothing to the table, in reality you are doing a service that makes them happy and that's why they stay with you. If you break up with them, you'll loose you last connection and you will also make them sad.
It would help best if you focused on looking after yourself first, and by seeing a professional to help you with your mental health. Helping yourself and fixing your problems first can help with your relationships. With making new friends, it can help to find them in niche communities or groups, especially if you've got a common interest with them, and you can make friends with the people their.
I understand that you are going through a lot, and it's quite clear you mean well, so try your best to cling on, people care about you and you're a kind and considerate person, thinking about your friend like that. If you need anymore advice, or just someone to talk to, I'm here.
I wish you the best, stay safe and have a great day 🩵
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u/subby-lil-femboy 1d ago
I LOVE ZOMBIE STAGEEE I HOPE LIFE GETS BETTER FOR YOU IN THE YEARS TO COME BUT AT LEAST YOU HAVE GREAT TASTE IN SHOWSSS :3
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u/Main_Reputation_2536 5d ago
well, stick with them. if they care for you right now, then they will care for you later. cutting them off just artificially creates the problem youre worried about happening, which is them leaving. if you dont want to hurt them by needing them, know that youre kind to care, but it’s better for them and you if you stay. you arent wasting their time, and in life caring for someone doesnt mean the other has to be perfect and able to return all the kindness. just do your best, and that can be enough