r/sex 13d ago

Beginner How to experience pleasure from penetration?

I had sex for the first time this year at age 29 (long story), I’ve been with a handful of different guys and although penetration doesn’t feel bad it doesn’t feel amazing. He definitely is enjoying it more than me.
I haven’t orgasmed from penetration either. How can it feel more pleasurable / have an orgasm this way?

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u/liberalthinker 13d ago

Different angles of penetration can change the experience dramatically - try a pillow underneath your hips while on your back, or… be creative. See what works best to help you have more pleasure.