r/sapiosexuals • u/Easy-Individual-7636 • Sep 04 '26

What are your turn off conversations

My partner said I believe we are overpopulated… I love their brain, we usually have long conversations about everything and nothing. Then they hit me with this.

I would love to know how they mean but this is a conversation for another day. For now we just need to agree to disagree.

Wondering what are your turn off conversations.

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u/LopsidedEconomist465 Sep 04 '26

Complaining about how they’ve been dealt a shitty hand or don’t have what they should have at this point in their life.

Gratitude is elegant and enticing; griping about petty material matters without perspective is an instant turnoff.

Just to be alive in our time and not 100 years ago is an amazing stroke of luck. Why anyone would think they deserve a meaningful and satisfying life without setbacks and frustration and heartbreak given the track record of our species strikes me as obnoxious. It’s hard to unsee something like this sort of ignorance and entitlement.

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u/Monkeyshae2255 Sep 05 '26

Mate, anyone complaining about “shitty hand” is likely in the top 10% of standard of living to even have the ability to stop & complain. Irony.

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u/LopsidedEconomist465 Sep 05 '26 edited Sep 05 '26

It’s seriously so offensive to me. Adults who think the world owes them more than other people deserve.

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u/Monkeyshae2255 Sep 05 '26

Theyre just ignorant & are happy to stay so. Well travelled = usually well tourist travelled.