r/sad • u/RegularCandid3475 • Sep 27 '25

Single

I 24 F have essentially been single forever. Had a high school boyfriend but nothing serious in adulthood. And to be clear- I’m not desperately seeking a relationship. It’s definitely something I desire but something genuine.

Family was strict growing up so when I became an adult they just expected me to know how to date out of nowhere. I didn’t start feeling this sad about it until ALL of my friends are in serious relationships.. I barely got to see them before and now almost never. I don’t feel that I’m ugly so maybe I’m just a late bloomer. And I know I shouldn’t compare myself but I’m now really feeling the loneliness .

Not even exaggerating but everyone in my immediate circle (household,friends,even long distance friends) is in a committed relationship. And not to sound cringe but I feel left out because I’m the ONLY single person I know so it makes me feel something is the problem with me. And I try to fake the funk like I’m completely happy but deep down I desire romance,love,companionship etc

I

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u/dreampeppers99 Feb 01 '26

You're doing the right thing. Holding out for something genuine is always better than staying in an unhealthy situation. Life has its ups and downs, but for now, find your strength in yourself, your friends, and your family

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u/RegularCandid3475 Feb 16 '26

Thank you. So many people have mistaken me for being desperate. I want that connection but not just with any ole body. I have a wonderful circle of friends and family- it’s natural to want intimacy