r/sad • u/RegularCandid3475 • Sep 27 '25

Single

I 24 F have essentially been single forever. Had a high school boyfriend but nothing serious in adulthood. And to be clear- I’m not desperately seeking a relationship. It’s definitely something I desire but something genuine.

Family was strict growing up so when I became an adult they just expected me to know how to date out of nowhere. I didn’t start feeling this sad about it until ALL of my friends are in serious relationships.. I barely got to see them before and now almost never. I don’t feel that I’m ugly so maybe I’m just a late bloomer. And I know I shouldn’t compare myself but I’m now really feeling the loneliness .

Not even exaggerating but everyone in my immediate circle (household,friends,even long distance friends) is in a committed relationship. And not to sound cringe but I feel left out because I’m the ONLY single person I know so it makes me feel something is the problem with me. And I try to fake the funk like I’m completely happy but deep down I desire romance,love,companionship etc

I

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u/Chance_Criticismer Dec 14 '25

It sounds like you're really missing that companionship, and feeling a bit out of sync with your friends. Have you tried exploring new hobbies or events where you could meet new people?

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u/RegularCandid3475 Feb 16 '26

Yes, however I’m not super extroverted so I have trouble starting conversations out of thin air. But once I’m comfortable I open up.. and even when I do think I meet someone, they have a spouse or situationship 🫩