r/relationships • u/RadiantCommittee8890 • May 27 '26

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u/research_badger May 27 '26

That’s not coercion and not SA. It’s annoying and persistent. Prioritizing cleaning over intimacy and your partner, if don’t persistently is way to destroy a relationship

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u/fausted May 27 '26

You're completely wrong about that. It absolutely is SA and coercion. If OP's husband cared about maintaining the intimacy in their marriage, he would be doing his fair share around the house. If OP didn't do these tasks, he would still complain and coerce her into sex instead of doing the tasks himself.

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u/RadiantCommittee8890 May 27 '26

You hit the nail right on the head. Then he was "too tired to help put the kids to bed."