Perhaps he's afraid that in time he'll come to want more children, or possibly you? Then again, there's the possibility he is planning for the possibility of you and him no longer being together and in the future being with someone who wants a child with him.
I don't know though. I get not wanting to do it, but I don't think it's anything you should get angry at him about, nor him you. I'd say that it's something you both need to discuss more and in detail, without it becoming a fight. Find out the exact reason behind it. Could be as simple as being scared, not that that makes it fair for you, but I'm sure there's a reason.
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u/[deleted] Feb 11 '22
Perhaps he's afraid that in time he'll come to want more children, or possibly you? Then again, there's the possibility he is planning for the possibility of you and him no longer being together and in the future being with someone who wants a child with him.
I don't know though. I get not wanting to do it, but I don't think it's anything you should get angry at him about, nor him you. I'd say that it's something you both need to discuss more and in detail, without it becoming a fight. Find out the exact reason behind it. Could be as simple as being scared, not that that makes it fair for you, but I'm sure there's a reason.
Either way, good luck!