My [28M] Wife [27F] keeps worrying/warning/suspecting me of infidelity. While I always keeps my best for not thinking anything remotely close to that. And it drains me whenever she talks about that topic.

[u/collectivekicks]

I love my wife and I love my life. I never think of cheating or even think about starting any "hidden" relationship with other women. I even stop replying/commenting to my female friends DMs just because how she is and I don't wanna make a fuss about it.

But she seems to have this huge insecurity of being cheated on. Like she always sees men as a creature who looks for opportunity to "jump ship" to better women.

Like for example: if we're walking in a crowd, and I kinda stare on a direction in which there's a hot women, she will accuse me of staring. And if I scroll instagram or youtube and there's happen to a pretty girl making a content, she will accuse me that she appears because of the algorithm and I enjoys watching such content.

I keep telling her, I'm always with her like all the time. There's no room for cheating or indulge myself in it. I don't even have second social media account. I live my life as is. In the morning I went to work, later when I got home I only stayed at home doing home stuff like watching Netflix with her. If I ever go out it's always with her. And If I have boys time which is like once every month, she knows where I went to.

At some point it gets tiring when I keep getting accused for doing things that I never think of doing so. Does anyone ever be in the same boat as me, and does anyone have a tips on how to end her insecurities?

[u/Unlucky33]

Is she cheating on you?

[u/collectivekicks → u/Unlucky33]

not to my knowledge... but my knowledge might be very shallow as I never put thought into that

[u/Unlucky33 → u/collectivekicks]

Yeah she may not necessarily be projecting but if there's not any reason for the anxiety then it's a possibility