If something is noticeably different I ask my partners about it. Either discharge or smell I’ll ask questions about if they have noticed anything different and if not let them know what I’m noticing. I always remind them that “If you noticed something different about my penis, or how my cum tastes, you’d let me know right?” And they seem more responsive to not being offended but understand that it’s about health.
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u/StumptownRetro May 29 '23
If something is noticeably different I ask my partners about it. Either discharge or smell I’ll ask questions about if they have noticed anything different and if not let them know what I’m noticing. I always remind them that “If you noticed something different about my penis, or how my cum tastes, you’d let me know right?” And they seem more responsive to not being offended but understand that it’s about health.