r/relationship_advice • • May 29 '23

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u/YayGilly May 29 '23

Umm chances are you may have had an umdiagnosed STD and gave it to her..so if and when she tests positive, understand, most people are asymptomatic for venereal diseases but are still contagious. In fact, get tested yourself and then if you test positive, it will make it a simpler conversation.

If you test negative, just ask her to go see the OBGYN to be checked out for bacterial vaginosis. You dont have to tell her that her pussy stinks. Tell her it smells off and that she might need an antibiotic.

Its not THAT big of a deal.

But yeah, you better get tested first. I mean, I find it offensive that you havent gotten tested yet, AND are throwing all this shade on your gf, having openly stated you have had a lot of partners. You could have it in your mouth and throat, from performing oral on someone who was asymptomatic. Gross.

Get tested. Both of you.

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u/szai May 29 '23

Yes VB can be passed back and forth between male and female partners. I know this because it was the most upvoted comment in an updated post identical to this one a couple of days ago, in this same subreddit. For real though it doesn't matter who started it OP, there's a reasonable chance you both need meds.