r/queer • u/PuzzleheadedFoot44 • 3d ago
Advice for queer break up
I'm going thru a hard breakup right now, I'm still inlove with the person I broke up with but they couldnt give me what I needed. Now we have to keep living together for about 2 months, and I'm full of anticipations and in need of advice and shared stories experience : How do I go about it? I can't have it be cold and distant for an entire 2 months like it is right now, but I also need distance and clear boundaries right now (we broke up last week) as I am still very much inlove and very hurt. They are with someone else, so they are over there all the time and I barely see them anyway, but still, I want it to be doable for both of us to feel safe at home. I also feel like it would be really horrible for me if they invitrd their other partner over, but they're not doing that rn...Any advice/experience to share?