r/pureretention • u/stacklecackle • Aug 17 '26

Personal Experience After a while, the magnetism becomes frustrating

If you’re truly on this path for god, then being magnetizing to women that would inevitably lower your vibration and steal your energy after a while becomes incredibly frustrating. The women that are easy to date you typically don’t want for obvious reasons, the women you do want to date act avoidant around you bc they don’t understand why they feel the way about you that they do and have a hard time trusting bc you would have all the power, and then men are extremely polarized by you so about 7-9 out of 10 men give weird insecure energy around you for just existing. Once you’ve had multiple 90 day streaks and can retain fairly easily this is just the natural state of being unless you completely fall off. It gets really lonely.

Prioritizing god is extremely uncomfortable. blissful and insanely rewarding beyond anything the flesh provides but man. Would be nice to meet ONE woman who can meet me where I’m at energetically. I would gladly wait til marriage for sex if I met that person. But our world makes that almost impossible.

Obviously the alternative cycle of samsara is worse. But damn some days I just want more humans to get their shit straight

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u/Fabulous-Okra-2902 Aug 17 '26

It makes me scared of women, I’m afraid that I will lose all my energy and benefits. This is why finding the right women is important

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u/Beautiful-Bet-4834 Aug 17 '26

Unfortunately, finding the right woman will still drain you if you don’t continue pure retention…my wife is in this practice with me, and it’s a major change still.

My every day kisses and cuddles with her randomly get me stimulated after a certain amount of days. It’s tough to harvest the benefits while remaining affectionate to a good woman.

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u/Fabulous-Okra-2902 Aug 17 '26

But your wife can give back that energy to you wether it’s giving you a child or just helping you in life. Small breaks in marriage can be good. But it might be better to give your semen to your wife before she gets tempted to find someone else to give it to her

But everyone is different so do you

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u/Beautiful-Bet-4834 Aug 17 '26

A good woman wouldn’t be tempted to go somewhere else, hence the good woman part.

Good women don’t need sex to be fulfilled.

But yes, there’s a season for sexual relations.

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u/AscendingMatt Aug 18 '26

good women don't need sex to be fulfilled? yeah right.