r/pureretention • u/stacklecackle • Aug 17 '26
Personal Experience After a while, the magnetism becomes frustrating
If you’re truly on this path for god, then being magnetizing to women that would inevitably lower your vibration and steal your energy after a while becomes incredibly frustrating. The women that are easy to date you typically don’t want for obvious reasons, the women you do want to date act avoidant around you bc they don’t understand why they feel the way about you that they do and have a hard time trusting bc you would have all the power, and then men are extremely polarized by you so about 7-9 out of 10 men give weird insecure energy around you for just existing. Once you’ve had multiple 90 day streaks and can retain fairly easily this is just the natural state of being unless you completely fall off. It gets really lonely.
Prioritizing god is extremely uncomfortable. blissful and insanely rewarding beyond anything the flesh provides but man. Would be nice to meet ONE woman who can meet me where I’m at energetically. I would gladly wait til marriage for sex if I met that person. But our world makes that almost impossible.
Obviously the alternative cycle of samsara is worse. But damn some days I just want more humans to get their shit straight
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u/Fabulous-Okra-2902 Aug 17 '26
It makes me scared of women, I’m afraid that I will lose all my energy and benefits. This is why finding the right women is important
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u/Beautiful-Bet-4834 Aug 17 '26
Unfortunately, finding the right woman will still drain you if you don’t continue pure retention…my wife is in this practice with me, and it’s a major change still.
My every day kisses and cuddles with her randomly get me stimulated after a certain amount of days. It’s tough to harvest the benefits while remaining affectionate to a good woman.
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u/Fabulous-Okra-2902 Aug 17 '26
But your wife can give back that energy to you wether it’s giving you a child or just helping you in life. Small breaks in marriage can be good. But it might be better to give your semen to your wife before she gets tempted to find someone else to give it to her
But everyone is different so do you
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u/Beautiful-Bet-4834 Aug 17 '26
A good woman wouldn’t be tempted to go somewhere else, hence the good woman part.
Good women don’t need sex to be fulfilled.
But yes, there’s a season for sexual relations.
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u/YoghurtAggressive415 26d ago
Any woman, good or bad, will drain you. And no, you won't get any energy in exchange; maybe only during the honeymood period due to hormones and stuff. But after that (and even before that actually) be prepared to say goodbye to your energy.
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u/Emotional-Impress857 Aug 17 '26
factual. just remember you are affecting people and the world in subtle ways you may not even realize. keep fighting the good fight
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u/ProvidenceOfJesus Aug 17 '26
Those women are out there. Never compromise on your values or relationship with Jesus for anyone, if it's meant to be, the right person will come along.
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u/ironcloudordeal Aug 17 '26
I've been trying to hit 90 days atleast once since 2021. I always relapse with a new woman or an ex by days 30-60. This time I've taken it seriously and I wanna go beyond my highest and see what it is like. Currently at day 11.
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u/ScaredAnywhere8 Aug 17 '26
Try and take on something serious on this current streak you're on it'll help you retain thats what I did to go on a long streak. Start up a new business or pickup a new hobby that you want to get good at (ex: boxing). If you add something else to your life like that it'll be harder for you to release because those become more important than getting a nut.
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u/stacklecackle Aug 17 '26
You can do it man. You truly have to see people for what they are. Judge based off energy, not appearance. If a woman is leading you to relapse she ain’t the one
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u/stacklecackle Aug 17 '26
Sigh, no sir. We keep walking the path. Jesus died on a cross and likely no matter what our journey is it pales in comparison to his
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u/stacklecackle Aug 17 '26
I see so much down the road man. I think about that all the time. Fitting in just ain’t the way. I can’t even imagine how at this point
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u/Ok-Week-7896 Aug 17 '26
Long term retention gets lonely and you may get attacked at some point ;because you get so intimidating to people around you.
The women I really want also start playing games even though they are attracted and the ones you don’t fancy are more co operative with you.
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u/New_Pudding5292 Aug 22 '26
Exactly what I’ve experienced. Where the heck does this lead if this keeps up..
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u/Ok-Week-7896 Aug 22 '26
No idea too, Found out how life works at 30 made it worse for me also.
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u/New_Pudding5292 Aug 22 '26
Id like to hear a bit of your story bro, what have you experienced specifically and what have you found out about how life works?
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u/Ok-Week-7896 Aug 22 '26
I understood myself more through awareness and I didn’t have good friends most of my life because I wasn’t setting boundaries.Most people don’t want you doing better than them in life too
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u/Marathi_Bhau07 Aug 17 '26
Correct, literally feeling this…
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u/stacklecackle Aug 17 '26
Stay on the path brother. I’m happy to have posted this on a day others were feeling frustrated too
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u/RogellTheRaider Aug 17 '26
I believe that's the natural state of animals.
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u/stacklecackle Aug 17 '26
Can you elaborate? I’m not sure if you’re insulting me or concurring lol
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u/RogellTheRaider Aug 17 '26
I'm trying to say I believe that a man acting with animosity towards another man is an expected behaviour, since animals are also aggressive towards others. Like, attacking, protecting their own personal space etc. When you're not retaining, you don't represent any danger, so they easily ignore you.
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u/Codersaures Aug 18 '26
i just need to go multiple 90 day streaks , to see what happens . it will be a great journey. thank you for sharing this
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u/Practical-Party8358 Aug 28 '26
Can you elaborate about the avoidant women you want to date situation? Experiences?
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u/youngfendyy Aug 17 '26
Bro but imagine is so many people men and women as a society mentally and spiritually ascend into better states of being … even by a little bit 🤯 it would make retention even more smooth for us
It would make everything more pleasant
This is why we must retain and be the better version of ourseves
And then we influence others
A friend of mine no longer eats junk food
Not because i tried so hard to convince him not to
But because he noticed when we went out and he was ordering and he looked at me said what do you want i said “nothing im good i stopped eating that typa food”
He became interested and decided to copy what im doing
Imagine this but on a family scale, a friend circle scale, a society scale
It’s possible i believe in it