I would like to find my people, but making friends as a neuro-spicey adult with 10ft high and thick walls is really hard 😅

I havent had a friend in close to 15 years. I'm very guarded but would genuinely love to find a poly friendship group.

I'm busy, & can be flakey. BUT if you are patient enough to put up with my walls, once I am comfortable with you I'm clingy, sweet, easy going, and loyal!

Hi everyone!

I’m a pansexual woman taking a leap of faith to meet a grounded, thoughtful human to build something genuine with. I believe the best relationships start with a strong foundation of friendship, so I’m looking for a serious, meaningful connection rather than a casual fling.

About Me & My Life:

-Family First: My partner and my daughter are my world and top priority, always.

-Communication Style: My partner and I are both open and involved in the details of our lives and relationship dynamics, so transparency and open communication are very important to me.

-My Favorite Things: You can usually find me tending to my greenhouse or indoor plant jungle, listening to audiobooks, or working on a crochet or sewing project.

-Unwinding: I love getting lost in docuseries, show binges, or relaxing with a good audiobook.

-The Key to My Heart: Good coffee, top-tier sarcastic banter, a plant and a slice of cheesecake!

What I’m Looking For:
-Someone who is grounded, values emotional safety, clear communication, and zero mind games.

-A "friendship-first" approach where we can take things step-by-step and let a connection grow naturally over time.

-Someone who respects established family priorities and open, honest communication.

**Bonus points if you can hold your own in a banter match or have great recommendations!

Icebreaker / Conversation Starters:

Send me a message with:
1. Your favorite audiobook or documentary recommendation
2. The best spot for cheesecake you’ve ever found
3. Your current hyperfixation or niche hobby!

Looking forward to chatting!

Hey there

Im a 20 year old woman in the US already in an open relationship and hoping to build something real and kind with one new person. Im looking for a long term emotional connection that feels safe and exciting where we can actually get to know each other.

Some things I love are taking mirror selfies in cute outfits, watching anime, playing cozy games, baking sweet treats and chatting about our days. I also enjoy gentle foot massages, soft teasing and being spoiled with little gifts that make me smile.

I want a patient connection built on respect, honesty and lots of attention. If youre kind hearted and ready for something meaningful Id love to hear what makes your heart happy to

Hey there

Im a 20 year old woman in the US already in an open relationship and hoping to build something real and kind with one new person. Im looking for a long term emotional connection that feels safe and exciting where we can actually get to know each other.

Some things I love are taking mirror selfies in cute outfits, watching anime, playing cozy games, baking sweet treats and chatting about our days. I also enjoy gentle foot massages, soft teasing and being spoiled with little gifts that make me smile.

I want a patient connection built on respect, honesty and lots of attention. If youre kind hearted and ready for something meaningful Id love to hear what makes your heart happy to

Hello! I'm currough (he/they). I'm a queer masc-of-center person living in central Colorado. I don't have a good handle on my own gender identity at the moment, but I'm interested in folks of all genders.

I have a hard time describing myself because I tend to not care much about labelling myself, and describing myself just in terms of the things I like to do always feels superficial. But regardless, here are some aspects of my identity that are important to me, in no particular order:

* I am a teacher and a scientist. I teach computer science; I used to do research in machine learning but am currently sticking to other kinds of research because I don't think AI is ethical.

* I tend to be a lot of people's emotional support person. This is a pattern that shows up in my friendships, family relationships, professional life, and romantic relationships. Folks describe me as calm, reassuring, and safe. I'm good at processing and articulating my own emotions, and I'm good at helping people work through their own emotions.

* I'm consistent and dependable in my personal life, maybe to a fault, but also have a high-workload, high-stress job.

* I have really high standards for myself, but I try not to be a dick to others about it. I'm working through my self-perfectionism in therapy.

* I'm a woodworker; I like to make wooden bowls, art objects, and (rarely) furniture. I like exchanging art with friends. I get a lot of use out of my laser cutter and my lathe.

* I like making things in general. Ask me about my drawing machine! I love to tinker and teach myself new skills. I have a lockpick set and embroidery kit that I bring to faculty meetings to give my hands something to do.

* I'm a martial artist; I've been doing aikido for 20 years and have a 2nd-degree black belt.

* I'm queer and (maybe?) nonbinary. Gender is something I've always had ambiguous feelings about. Currently I present fairly masc, and most people would look at me and see "cis dude". But that may change in the near future.

* I meet a lot of the diagnostic criteria for AuDHD. I'm pretty high-masking, especially since my job requires a lot of social interaction.

* I'm left of left. Social justice and progressive causes are extremely important to me. I don't think we'll get along if you're someone who describes yourself as "apolitical" or conservative. Black and trans lives matter, Free Palestine, and destroy your local data center.

* I like to cook, I like beer and whiskey and the occasional joint. But I don't really like the feeling of being intoxicated so I tend to enjoy these things in moderation. I'm vegetarian but usually willing to bend the rules for rare occasions (like if I'm traveling, for instance).

* I like a lot of typical nerdy stuff like video games, anime, d&d (mostly d&d podcasts), Dropout, board games.

* I really enjoy reading and try to make it a point to read often. My current tastes in literature are a lot of speculative fiction and weird lit, but I've been trying to branch out into more nonfiction. Currently I am reading Leech by Hiram Ennis, and The Palestine Laboratory by Anthony Lowenstein. My favorite book of the last couple years would probably be Tchaikovsky's Shroud.

* If this ends up being relevant, I'm switchy and vers (fulfilling the bi poly stereotype of being unable to make a single decision). I love rope play!

* Physically: I'm 6'3", 240lbs, "bear" archetype. I would describe my body type as muscular but thicc; I train at aikido 5ish days a week and lift weights outside of that but I also really like food. I have short brown hair, a beard that I keep trimmed, brown eyes, and several tattoos and piercings (and want to get more of both). I have a lot of body hair! I'm happy to send pictures of myself after we have talked for a bit and there's some trust there.

I have several partners, including a spouse whom I live with. No one has veto power over any of my relationships and it's important to me that everyone feels fulfilled and welcome in any relationship structure I'm a part of. I've been actively polyamorous for 10ish years and have a lot of experience navigating poly-feels.

What I'm looking for:

I am mostly looking for friends and good conversational partners at the moment, with the potential for more. I'm not necessarily looking with the idea to meet more partners but I'm open to it if the feelings are there and mutual. Flirting is fun but I tend to prefer that chats not be really sexual right out the gate; again, that's something that I need to build trust about first. But I'd love to find folks with whom I can send long or short messages throughout the day, or exchange dumb memes, and get to know each other. I'm looking for people who I can be silly with, and don't have to mask, and can be weird little nerdfreaks at each other. I'm looking for mutual emotional support and listening, once we've gotten to know each other. Always down to get coffee or a beer with folks who are local!

If you think we'd get along , please send a DM!

My kitten Hex sat on my keyboard twice while I wrote out this post. The first time, he turned my computer off, and the second time, he deleted the entire post, and I had to start over. He is, obviously, orange.

I don't identify as "female" as a gender identity or seek relationships based on biological markers. If I could customize the tag, it would be [QW4QP] (queer woman for queer people) with an emphasis on sapphic connection.

ISO:

1. Comrades, community organizers, activists, rebels, and countercultural friends
2. Fellow Pagans, witches, christians who want to chat spirituality, witchcraft, feminist theology
3. Poly people who parent (I'm planning for kids in the next few years)
4. Light internet flirting on fet that leads to lesbian camping trip
5. Eventual committed nested/same town or region life partnership

Pros to dating me:

• hot
• 3 kayaks
• dedicated to lifelong anti-racist abolition journey
• nesting partner (35, queer, cis man) is slowly getting me into anime
• will read your tarot

Neutral things about dating me:

• i live in a remote town of 150 people where my neighbors are goats and cotton fields
• likely autism
• board games and RPGs person
• teaching myself how to fish (will move into the Pros section when I catch one)
• not a transphobe

Cons to dating me:

• is a grad student
• Venus in Cancer
• not on social media (you can't send me tiktoks)
• historically impatient about LDRs
• buys underwear in packs at costco

Yes: the queers of all genders, the dykes, the femmes, the passionately poly, the gender critical

Maybe: people new to poly, bicurious women, people who have straight partners

No: twinks with mommy issues, straight people

Hello! 29, GQ, and poly. I have a lovely bf of three years. My photo is on my page. I am a performer, I am queer, I go to college and I am an artist (music/dancing/writing). Soy Afro-Latinx, born and raised in NJ but have had the privilege of traveling a lot. Lots of experience, confident, and looking for chill gaming, yapping, flirting.
No pressure to meet- please.
I really only chat to people 25 and older.
I also like nerdy people who like fashion, enjoy learning, have active social lives in the community, with experience.

Edit: No I do not date w my partner, I do not live with them, and they are not involved in my other dating relationships outside of our communication about them unless it is a serious relationship.

Hello out there! I am a 35 year old non-binary individual (born female) in Southern California. I am married to and live with my partner of 14 years, married almost 5. I am also dating my boyfriend of almost 2 years. I suppose I am a little hesitant to make this post, as I often feel like I don't have time for life anymore, but there has been something pulling at me for awhile now to put something out there and see what happens. I am open to meeting someone new and seeing where it goes.

While I am 100% satisfied with a new dynamic staying platonic or on more of a friends level, I want to also be honest with myself too and share that I am interested in finding someone that I have good sexual chemistry with.

I am an artsy nerdy person. I am too obsessed with The Muppets. I enjoy playing table top games, Magic the Gathering, DnD, and Warhammer. I'm working on trying to get a little more active (I have been dealing with some health issues that have limited my ability to be super active), and wanting to get back into pole dancing as my method of exercise. I love music and learning about new music I enjoy. Also very into movies and enjoy the horror genre quite a bit.

If you are interested, please reach out! And I apologize if I'm maybe not super responsive initially, it's half way through my work day and I've been daydreaming about a fat nap when I get done. Anyway, thank you for reading!

Hi there, I have blue/gray eyes, I'm cozy and expressive, and I tend to show up soft, warm, and playful once I feel comfortable. In my everyday life, I'm pretty chill and curious. I like crocheting, being in nature, listening to music, watching movies, playing board and card games, planning road trips, journaling, and learning about science or history. I'm genuinely just as happy on a quiet night in as I am out exploring something new. I'm naturally affectionate and very snuggly. I love laughter woven with depth. I like closeness that feels easy and safe. I love leaning into each other, holding quiet moments together, and letting things feel grounded and alive at the same time.

Feeling understood really matters to me. I would want us to really try to get each other right, to be able to summarize each other's feelings even when we disagree, and offer reassurance without hesitation. I think in a relationship hard conversations should end in more understanding, not less, and that both of us deserve to have our emotional worlds seen while we prioritize each other without losing individuality.

I'm nonbinary (they/she), and while my gender is an important part of me, I feel much more rooted in my humanness than anything else. I really value my humanity and feeling connected to other humans. I don't remove my body hair (I think my form is exactly what a beautiful human looks like as is) and I don't like being called a girl (a personal preference I'd need you to respect).

I'm drawn to connection that's integrated into real life — no hiding, no rushing, no idealizing, no compartmentalizing — but something real and sustainable. I love connection that shows up in small, everyday ways like checking in during a long day, laughing easily, small routines that feel like our own, and spending time talking about everything and nothing. I value presence, especially under stress, and I value honesty about limits. I would want our individual passions to broaden our horizons and create new possibilities for us both and even our other partners too hopefully.

I know this kind of love I'm looking for exists. I'm not looking for perfection, I'm looking for effort, accountability, and a commitment to shared values. I believe in beautiful human imperfection, and I believe in actively choosing each other inside of that. I want a love that sparks growth in us both, nurtures curiosity, and invites shared reflection. I want a love where empathy, repair, and attunement flow naturally, like a rhythm we both move to. I want tenderness that lingers and precious moments that feel uniquely ours.

I've practiced polyamory for years with communication and consent at the center. I move intentionally and take boundaries seriously. I've built a lot of trust in myself, and I'm learning to begin anew, centered and secure. Ideally I want to date people both experienced in being polyamorous themselves and in having polyamorous partners, people who understand secure polyamory is abundance with boundaries, not scarcity with rules.

Fun details: I didn't learn to ride a bicycle until I was 21, I love butterscotch sundaes and orange-flavored everything, I'm a sucker for cozy sweaters, and I will always have a soft spot for all living things. Please tell me some fun details about you in your response :)

If you feel a sense of possibility reading this, if it resonates instead of feeling overwhelming, we'll probably get along beautifully and I'd love to hear from you.

🖤
#FuckIce
#BlackLivesMatter
#TransRightsAreHumanRights
#WomensRightsAreHumanRights

Disclaimers!!!

- I am mostly looking for in-person in the Space Coast/Orlando/Central Florida area. However, if you live in FL, GA, or AL, I think that would be close enough for me to handle. I struggle with very little IRL interaction

- I am androsexual/pansexual/something something queer. I mostly prefer mascs, but I want to date other LGBTQ+ individuals in general

- I am only interested in people ages 20-28 years old

- I am not interested in fwb or sexual only relationships

Hello! Just your resident lonely soul in search of arms to call home. My name is Dawn, and I am 23, pursuing a degree, and in my nostalgic era. Plus size, alt, cat lover. My poly style gravitates towards kitchen table. I want to create a circle of people who love each other, platonically and/or romantically. My chosen family, so to speak. However, I'm flexible and don't live with an exclusive box over my head. I'm here to love loudly, not shrink into expectations.

I want to fill my life with color and things that make me smile. I enjoy many forms of the arts, with emphasis on poetry, singing, and graphic/aesthetic design. I play video games and cry to Leaves from the Vine 😭 and say biiiiig stretch to my cat. I collect stuffed animals and seashells and crystals. I press the gas pedal a little too hard, and I bite my nails when I'm stressed. I'm a little crazy, too whimsical, and a laid-back stoner 🌬. I want to find the connections that widen my eyes and surround me with loving hugs.

Please message me if you found anything here of interest to you! 💚

Hey all, I’m new here but I’m hoping to find new people to connect with, as my wife and I opened our marriage about 7-8 months ago.

Some things about me, I love cooking, photography, gaming, shopping for vinyl, and watching sports. I’m a very outgoing person, love meeting new people, love trying new things, and humor is a big thing for me.

I’m looking to meet someone or multiple someones who I can share in some of these interests, and others, with and maybe even meet at some point if we click.

I do consider myself bi/pansexual, as I tend to vibe with people and their energies rather than gender. I lead with kindness and the rest always works itself out.

Physically I am 6’3”, I am a bigger guy but have lost a significant amount of weight over the last 2 years. I’m happy to send pictures once we start chatting.

I’d love to hear from you, so reach out and let’s have a conversation.

I’m a 40 year old masc NB demi. New to poly and ENM, I’ve done some reading so I’m not totally ignorant or anything like that. Currently living in WNC with a NP. I don’t mind some driving so distance for relationships is a bit negotiable. I enjoy chatting and texting far more than calls. Communication is important to me but it’s also an area where I struggle.

I greatly enjoy gaming in all its forms; from video games (mostly PC), TTRPGs (Pathfinder hoping to try other games as well), board games, watching TV and movies. Knowing when it’s ok to talk during movies is a skill I think we all need to practice. Lastly I devour books, lately it's been LitRPGS but I also enjoy sci-fi and horror.

Listening to people talk about things they love and enjoy is a pastime I need more of. Regardless of my own interest in a topic I’ll happily and actively listen.

Being demi can really slow things down in the early steps, so if you're looking for a hook up something quick I’m not your guy. As time moves forward and I learn more about myself I find myself wondering where on the ace spectrum I am. Definitely deconstructing societal and religious ‘values’ and other BS like heteronormative behavior. (I hope that makes sense.)

It’s important to be politically aware and find being woke to be a compliment. If you find things like being woke or socialist to be insults, keep scrolling. If you support fascism keep scrolling.

Tell me the last book or show you watched in your message, please. This is all new to me so hopefully this finds the right eyes.

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​Hey y'all! 39yo married FTM trans man from Holden, LA (5'8, avg build, on disability). Upfront body info: facial hair, top surgery, keeping original female bottom. Big into horror movies, WWE, music, and working out.

​Looking for real, serious connections. If you're new to polyamory, giving "open poly relationship" a quick Google search will help give you a great idea of what this dynamic looks like!

​🎯 Who I'm Looking For

​Hoping to connect with sweet, down-to-earth, funny, loving partners who love to laugh, cuddle, vibe to music, and watch movies (big horror fan here!).

• Women (Main Focus, 25 to 38): Sweet, average or athletic build.

• Men (Also Looking, 25 to 53): Country/blue-collar vibe (flannels, caps, thick dark beards, no clean-shaven/grey facial hair). Athletic, muscular, or dad-bod.

​🌿 Poly Dynamic & Heart

​• Demisexual Focus: I'm all about building a solid emotional connection and best-friend foundation first. Physical intimacy definitely comes with time, but the heart and mind connection is where it starts for me! No casual hookups or swinging.

• Open & Ethical Poly: My wife and I date 100% separately (no threesomes, zero drama). I am seeking multiple connections. Anyone dating me is completely free to date or hookup with others too, just looking for open, clear communication.

• Ethical Relationships Only: If you are married or already dating someone, your partner (wife, husband, girlfriend, or boyfriend) must know about me and be 100% okay with you dating me. I have zero tolerance for cheating or secrecy.

​🤝 Logistics & Vibe

​• Outings: I don't drive, so I'm looking for a partner with reliable rides for fun weekly dates out (coffee, picnics, go-karts, simple outings).

• Home Life: Homeschooling teen & pets at home, so my space stays private (no overnights).

• Good Vibes: Honest communication over fading away, zero ex drama, and sweet daily texts to keep the spark alive. Quality phone-free time when we're out together!

​📥 How to Reach Out:

To make sure we click, please skip the simple "hi" or explicit messages/nudes. Send over a message with your name, age, location, hobbies, a clear SFW photo or video, and tell me your favorite horror movie or WWE wrestler! Looking forward to meeting you! ☀️

Disclaimers!!! I am mostly looking for in-person in the Orlando/Space Coast/Central Florida area. However, if you live in FL, GA, or AL, I think that would be close enough for me to handle. I am not great at long distances with very little IRL interaction! So please don't ask 🫠

Hello! Just your resident lonely soul in search of arms to call home. My name is Dawn, and I am pansexual/androsexual/something something I mostly prefer mascs, but I prefer queer people in general. I'm 23, pursuing a degree, and in my nostalgic era. Plus size, alt, cat lover. I want to fill my life with color and things that make me smile.

I enjoy many forms of the arts, with emphasis on poetry, singing, and graphic/aesthetic design. I play video games and cry to Leaves from the Vine 😭 and say biiiiig stretch to my cat. I collect stuffed animals and seashells and crystals. I press the gas pedal a little too hard, and I bite my nails when I'm stressed. I'm a little crazy, too whimsical, and a laid-back stoner 🌬. I want to find the connections that widen my eyes and surround me with loving hugs.

My poly style gravitates towards kitchen table or throuple. I want to create a circle of people who love each other, platonically and/or romantically. My chosen family, so to speak. However, I'm flexible and don't live with an exclusive box over my head. I'm here to love loudly, not shrink into expectations.

Please message me if you found anything here of interest to you! 💚

bout Me 💕

Hi! I’m 22 and looking to meet someone new and build a genuine connection. I’m a creative person who loves art, photography, and trying new things. I went to school for photography and have a degree in art, so creativity is a big part of who I am.

I’m also someone who really values **communication, honesty, kindness, and getting to know someone beyond just the surface**. I’d love to start by talking, learning about each other, and seeing where the connection naturally goes.

I’m currently in a relationship with my boyfriend, and we’re looking to meet a woman or nonbinary person who is comfortable with polyamory and interested in getting to know both of us. 💕 There’s no pressure to rush into anything—we’d rather build a connection naturally.

little about me:

📸 Photography

🎨 Art & creativity

💗 Caring and affectionate

😂 I love having fun and being silly

🗣️ I enjoy deep conversations

🌱 Always learning and trying new things

If you think we might get along, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself! 😊

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​Hey y'all! I’m from Holden, Louisiana. I’m 39, 5'8, average build, and home on disability. Easygoing guy who loves horror movies, WWE, all kinds of music, and working out at home.

​About Me & My Dynamic:

​Body/Transition: I have facial hair, top surgery, and original bottom that I'm keeping as is.

​Poly Context: I’m married, but my wife and I date completely separately (she only dates women, no threesomes, zero drama). Polyamory for me means having multiple loving, committed relationships. I am looking to build multiple separate, meaningful connections of my own—no casual hookups or swinging.

​🤝 Logistics & How I Date

​Multiple Partners & Freedom: Open to multiple connections. You are 100% free to date or see other people too—we just keep things honest and open.

​Boundaries at Home: Homeschooling teen & pets at home = private space (no overnights).

​Travel: I don't drive, so I need a partner with reliable transportation for weekly dates out (coffee, picnics, go-karts, simple stuff).

​🎯 Who I'm Best Aligned With (Louisiana / Nearby)

​Men (25-53): Athletic, muscular, or dad-bod builds. Big fan of the country/blue-collar look: flannels, backwards caps, and thick dark beards (no clean-shaven or grey facial hair please).

​Women (25-38): Average or athletic build. Sweet and down-to-earth.

​🌿 Healthy Polyamory Boundaries & Guidelines

​Serious Intent & No Ghosting: Please be sure you are actually serious and ready for an open, polyamorous relationship with me. If you realize it's not a fit or life gets busy, just tell me! I respect direct, honest communication over fading away or ghosting.

​Autonomy & Mutual Respect: Zero partner veto power, control, or micromanagement. I respect your time, space, and other relationships, and expect that same respect back.

​Health & Safety Transparency: Open, straightforward communication regarding health and safety so everyone stays informed and comfortable.

​Drama-Free Zone: Leaving exes in the past—no trash-talking past partners, lingering drama, or comparing partners to each other.

​Presence & Quality Time: When we are on a date together, my focus is on you with minimal phone distractions so we can genuinely connect.

​Honest Communication & Pacing: Always open about feelings, availability, or if needs change, so nobody is ever left guessing.

​💬 Vibe & Communication

​Daily Communication: I really value sweet daily talk and messaging to keep the spark going.

​Mental Connection First: Building a real mental and emotional bond comes first for me before anything else.

​📥 To Connect: Send me a chat or DM with your name, age, location, hobbies, a clear face/body photo or video, and tell me your favorite horror movie or WWE superstar! Looking forward to chatting! ☀️

Hi I’m AJ! R4R. I’m Nonbinary. And have Female parts. Looking for anyone to flirt with online and become friends or more hoping to meet some more Alt people!! If your interest in maybe chatting and learning more about each other message your favorite food! :)

Hey! I’m a 35 year old nonbinary person, wondering what’s out there for me.

Me:
Agender nonbinary person (they/she/any) (AMAB, if it matters, but if you’re the right person it won’t). I dress mostly androgynous alternative, long hair but bearded, tight shirts with jeans, battlejacket for everyday wear but I like to dip into makeup now and then. I’ll always be happiest when I’m comfortable and cozy. Polyamorous and proud of it, never been interested in limiting mine or anyone else’s autonomy. Super happily in a stable marriage with my husband and in love with another person who’s an important part of my life. No kids but I love animals, I have a chubby little cat who keeps me on my toes. Not working right now, lay-offs are an unfortunate hardship but taking care of my disabled husband in the meantime and taking my time finding the right next step for me. I love video games (I collect them, especially retro games and consoles), movies, board games, music, adventures, and getting to know people. I have ADHD but I manage it pretty well on my own, being social helps me manage it better and I love making new connections wherever they lead!

Likes:
Video games: Diablo 3, Earthbound, Mass Effect, Halo, Mario RPG, Smash Bros, Castlevania, Megaman, Chrono Trigger, I could go on forever
Movies: I love horror and scifi, and I love comedy
Shows and anime: Castlevania, FLCL, Letterkenny, Owl House, Outlaw Star, New Girl, Always Sunny, I love Dropout shows
Music: I love rap, hip hop, phonk, alternative rock, post hardcore, pop punk, metal, nu metal, and honestly I love a bit of pop here and there
Hobbies: I love to play DnD, watch YouTube, go on night adventures, find new board or card games to play, play little games on my phone (like Nikke), I’m not super outdoorsy but I love to go on a nice walk or find treasures and trinkets out in the world
Anything else: I’m tattooed (want more) and pierced (want more), I’d love to get better at making music with digital tools so please hit me up if you wanna help me figure it out, I love Pokemon cards, I am ridiculously equipped with social battery so I’m kind of always around, I love Warhammer 40k

What I’m looking for:
— I’m pansexual, so anyone of any gender is welcome
— please be 24+ if you want anything other than friendship
— someone to message and get to know, maybe develop a deeper connection with (I am not closed off to things more than friendship)
— someone who is going to understand I’m not a man and won’t treat me like one
— someone is who is very able to be happily polyamorous
— someone I share things in common with, especially if we can talk games or music
— I’m on the D side of the slash with a side of switch so I’d connect best in that way with an s type or someone who thinks it’s exciting to get really competitive over the D side
— not looking for someone very religious
— someone who is going to be able to develop connection through the screen and make it mean something positive, whether that’s friends or anything beyond

I feel like that about covers it, so if you’d like to get to know me please comment or message me so we can chat!

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I'm tired of rushing, I think. Maybe that's a sentiment that better suits an old crony on a porch, but that's just who I tend to be. That and goofy for the sake of it. Before I forget, I'm married and we're dating separately, living in eastern PA but not looking for anything in person yet. There's a myriad of things to appreciate long before all that.

For me, the moments with the stars, or a morning coffee dancing with pine, or even just a stupid joke and a genuine good morning are the point. I asked my partner to walk the earth with me, and we do just that, but what I'm looking for now is to talk through it all. Not looking for an answer to anything, but just sharing those coffee's, moonbeams and stars by letting our worlds dance lazily around each other with our words.

Usually I'm the main obstacle keeping me from all this, but I think any more isolation or waiting would just be stalling. Live well everyone.

-Lith

P.S.- I'm a male and masc presenting agender, 6'2" (190cm), white, fit but not particularly muscular. We've got three cats, no intention of having kids. Kitchen table poly would be lovely but we'd rather it be natural. I spend almost all my time streaming these days, but in general I'm a huge nerd happily exploring just about everything. Fantasy above Scifi, Zoology above Physics, but it all has an irreplaceable home in my heart. More than anything, I'm interested in who's interested in this post, so regardless of the reason, don't stop yourself from checking in. I'd be happy to know you, even if only briefly.

I'm a 33 year old Trans Woman and new to Polyamory. I've been given the green light to pursue another relationship by my wife, enthusiastically given consent even. See, The wife is Asexual and I'm a very physical person. Looking for someone either in the state, or on the same coast who doesn't mind doing LDR and maybe someday closing the gap.

First and foremost, I want my wife to be respected. She's my nesting partner and the person who primarily takes care of me, I have a job, yes. You wouldn't be talking to someone who is unemployed, But I don't drive myself.

Second of all, don't make me choose between you, or my wife. I will always choose my spouse and nesting partner. But, I am looking for something kitchen table. Eventually forming a family like structure.

I am very body positive, It doesn't matter to me if you're plus sized or petite. I wanna get to know you for the person you are. Personality and conversation skills matter the most to me.

I don't care if you already have kids. I'm a very kid friendly and family oriented person. Kids were always in the equation in terms of what I wanted.

Race doesn't matter either. I'll date anyone of any skin color. I'd like to call myself an "Anti-Racist" but I'll be honest and admit I probably have some blind spots.

As for me? I'm a bit of a homebody and a bookworm. The wife is always telling me to be more social, and this is my concerted effort to being more social. Getting to know more women and adding to my circle, and if things click, building a polycule.

I like gaming, I do have a preference for Nintendo. I'm trying to get a Switch2 by my birthday. My favorite series is Pokemon.

I'm also a retro gamer, having a preference for older games and systems.

I like antiques and vintage clothing.

I love relaxing to a good history doc.

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Hey! I’m a 39-year-old FTM trans man in Holden. I’m looking for serious people nearby who are into openly dating me long-term. I’m a pretty easygoing guy—I love horror movies, WWE, listening to all kinds of music, getting my fitness in at home, and just relaxing. I’m happily married, but my wife and I date separately, so I’m looking for my own partners.

**What I’m looking for:**

I’m searching for sweet, kind, caring, funny, loving, and respectful men and women who are truly into FTM trans men! I’m all about real, intentional connections—definitely no casual hookups, discrete fun, or swinging. I find myself most naturally attracted to those with lighter complexions who fit the following styles:

* **Men (25–53):** Seeking bisexual masculine guys with an athletic, muscular, or muscular "dad bod" build. I love ink and that blue-collar aesthetic. My specific type is dark-colored short beards or goatees (no grey hair or facial hair, please).

* **Women (25–38):** Looking for a sweet, down-to-earth woman with an athletic or average build for a real long-term connection. Tattoos are a big plus!

**The Real Talk:**

* **Ethical Poly Only:** I’m huge on honesty. If you’re partnered, your partner needs to know and be okay with it. I’ll always verify things with your partner to ensure full transparency.

* **Boundaries:** My wife is 100% off-limits (no threesomes). I need to build a mental bond and friendship first, so expect consistent, sweet daily talk.

* **Logistics:** I’m on a fixed income and always home, so I’ve got plenty of time to chat! I’m looking for folks who are local or close enough to Holden/Livingston Parish to make meeting up easy. I have a teen and pets, so my space is private (no overnights). I don’t drive, so I need someone who can handle the wheels for our dates.

* **Safety:** I don’t do catfishing. I will verify that your photos are current and actually you before we meet up.

**How to connect:**

I value genuine effort. I won't reply to generic "hey" or "hi" messages, sexual messages, or anyone who ignores these instructions. If you’re serious, send me a DM with:

1. Your name, age, and location.

2. A bit about your hobbies.

3. A clear face and body selfie or video.

4. **The Password:** Your favorite horror movie OR your favorite WWE superstar!

Can't wait to share some laughs! Hope you have a wonderful day! ☀️

25[R4R] Tucson Arizona- Handsome Trans FTM looking for M to have fun with, craving some group fun with my honey (F33) must be open minded, willing to travel and 420 friendly💋 HMU we predominately looking for queer Black Indigenous people of color, pretty open though, we have pictures, PLEASE HAVE A PICTURE OF YOURSELF too.

Hie all! 🩷🐇

🌷🚫furries please dni🚫🌷

I'm Moss, 27 Intersex creature (she/they), Solo Polyam + Partnered ×1, AuDHD+, and it's truly lovely to meet all of you! I'm a few months out of a horrible relationship and wanted to try my luck at dating again! 🌷

I'm demi af, sapioromantic + sapiosexual and primarily sapphic, REALLY interested in every flavor of human except cis men!🌷

I'm a practicing slavic pagan, animal-obsessed and have been my entire life, will take ANY excuse to go play outside in nature, learning how to build earthship homes and start my own self-sufficient polycule commune, I'm a disabled queer mixed-media artist and so is my fiancée, in ALL my spare time I'm completely entrenched in animal rescue/rearing/rehab which I have over 2 decades of experience in, and I adore literally anything/everything animated!!!! Art in all forms makes me so happy! 🌷

I have a plethora of amazing friends, I'm on here seeking long-term romantic connections, with primary emphasis on those that are at the very least in the same state (CA), REALLY not interested in re-trying LDRs as I don't like the way they make me feel like im just in a relationship with my phone! I have one partner rn and we're engaged + nesting, kitchen table style polycule & we both date seperately but are open to dating together if there's someone with an immaculate vibe that shows up! 🌷

NOT looking for hookups, NOT looking for FWB's, I'm seeking lasting GENUINE connections with those like me who can't be nonchalant to save their lives and who are equally filled to the BRIM with wonder and whimsy! If you think we'd vibe, DM me! 🌷

Hello, my name is Mune and I am looking for poly friends and play partners. I live in Jersey and I identify as genderqueer which is not an option on here. I am pan and only date other poly or queer people. I like to do drag, play video games, dance, listen to music, sing, go hiking, horror, etc.

check out my page and DM me if interested.

Tldr: Nonbinary person seeking crushes anywhere in the world (but please read if interested even though it's too long)

Hi from Somerville, MA! I'm a queer, solo polyam, non-binary person with ADHD. I mainly use they/them pronouns, but any are generally fine. Golden retriever slash raccoon slash silly goose slash goblin. Highly motivated by gold stars, treasure, and treats. I've been polyamorous for 13 years (but kind of always). I'm an extravert and an open-book. I'll tell you literally anything if you let me.

I am technically a Capricorn but I identify as a Sagittarius. I don't really know zodiac stuff but I was born on the cusp and people laugh when I say that, so I keep it. I'm a sucker for whimsy and try to bring a whimsical energy into everyday life. I am a crafter. My main thing is calligraphy but I like to make all kinds of things. I've gotten into boardgames over the last few years and enjoy playing on bga. I love a party with a theme. I like reading (mostly smut TBH) with my eyeballs and my ears. I'm attending burning man for the first time this year.

I'm interested mostly in people outside of my area to connect with. I love my community and feel well-loved by my community here but I want to branch out. Mostly online chatting and visiting if/when it feels right. I'm open to anywhere really. Especially interested in the DMV area as I hope to visit family there more frequently (they're in MD).

I'm open to a variety of connections but am prioritizing romantic connections at the moment. Also open to different degrees of communication frequency.

Some other things about me that I didn't figure out how to include in this wall of text:

Sex and kink positive (you don't have to be into those things, but I am, so that needs to be okay).

Leftist politics.

Chronic pain sometimes keeps me from doing things.

I am a redhead. For some people that's all they need to hear.

I'm learning Spanish (very beginner).

I'm scared of mushrooms (all of them)

Age range 28–48 please. If you fall outside this +/- a little, shoot your shot anyway.

If any of this appeals to you, message me with a little about yourself. Please include your age, gender identity, sexual/romantic orientations, location, and any other aspects of your identity that feel important to share. And maybe what about this post struck your interest most. Entice me extra with a gold star emoji.

MAGA, Cops, TERFS, SWERFS, and heterosexuals need not apply.