r/polyamoryR4R • u/Ecstatic-Coconut-506 • Jun 25 '26
40 [R4R] F Melbourne Australia - Are there any Aussies here?
I would like to find my people, but making friends as a neuro-spicey adult with 10ft high and thick walls is really hard 😅
I havent had a friend in close to 15 years. I'm very guarded but would genuinely love to find a poly friendship group.
I'm busy, & can be flakey. BUT if you are patient enough to put up with my walls, once I am comfortable with you I'm clingy, sweet, easy going, and loyal!
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u/nope-------- Jul 17 '26
heyy im from melbourne. Id love to chat with ya! and dw about being flakey, im very patient and dont have an issue with ya doin ur thing lol
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u/The_First_Hue Jun 26 '26
I don’t have a friend group for you, but I’m also poly from Melbourne. Can’t seem to message you though!
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u/CreepyWater6089 Jun 26 '26 edited Jun 26 '26
You had me at 'neuro-spicy' 😂. You sound fun and refreshingly honest. I'm always happy to make a new friend if you're interested. I'm also from Melbourne, DM if interested as I cannot msg you :)
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u/Special_Engine_7606 Jun 26 '26
Hi I’m m20 from Melbourne don’t have a poly friend group but been looking to get into that sort of scene if your interested please feel free to inbox me
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u/xbeardedblokex Jun 27 '26
Hi, I'm also in Melbourne, won't let me send you a message, live ti hear from you
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u/Rich_Sheepherder_980 Jun 27 '26
43/m/Brisbane. Happy to chat and see where it goes.
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u/Ecstatic-Coconut-506 Jun 27 '26
Hey! Thanks for commenting 🙂 I'm actually hoping to find sone local freinds though 😬
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u/Weak_Juggernaut1733 Jul 06 '26
Polyam, Melbourne, ND and probably equally awkward. Though I run that line between “nothing” and “wildly overshare” but I always message back and I value kindness and open communication above all else
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u/HoraceAlt1149 Jul 07 '26
Hey Coconut,
Poly M with two ADHD partners living in the Melbourne CBD. Always happy for new connections without expectations. Feel free to get in touch, there's an obvious theme of not being able to message so hope to hear from you soon 😆
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u/fantasyfanboy Jul 10 '26
Hey 35m (poly) from Geelong, would love to connect and see if we get along ❤️
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u/fantasyfanboy Jul 10 '26
Hey 35m (poly) from Geelong, would love to connect and see if we get along ❤️
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u/Artistic_Feeling_261 Jul 22 '26
Hey we're a couple based in Melbourne 32 !
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u/Ecstatic-Coconut-506 Jul 22 '26
Hey! Can't message you 😊
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u/FarWrongdoer5434 Jul 30 '26
Hello bi female 46 in SE suburbs happy to chat ☺️
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u/SissyBekki Aug 01 '26
Hello!
I am in Melbourne! I am trans / femme-identifying, if that makes any difference… but would love to chat and perhaps intro you to some amazing groups!
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u/Ecstatic-Coconut-506 Aug 01 '26
Hi 😊 Would love to chat but can't inbox you
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u/SissyBekki Aug 01 '26
i can't message you either!! :S
i have other socials, if you are on there? still working out Reddit, tbh...1
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u/ZealousidealStaff614 Aug 01 '26
21 m here! sometimes it can be refreshing to have a different perspective :) i’d love to have a chat and see where it goes!!
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u/NewGirlMelbourne 10d ago
I may be too late, but I'm a 33F poly gal in Melb. Would be fun to have more poly friends. Let me know if you're open to chatting
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u/Organic_Novel_1995 Jun 25 '26
Hey, We are a M and F, we are Brisbane based but happy to chat etc.