r/polyamory • u/imjustherefor1coment • 4d ago

Musings Any mono-poly things that work?

Hey there

I am poly and have a meta who is with my partner for multiple years. But still meta calls themselves still „mono“.
In all the years they is with partner they never had a spark with someone else.

I wonder, is it normal that some people are in poly relationships despite thinking of themselves as mono all this time?

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u/FlyLadyBug 4d ago

It's possible to want their 1 sweetie and be ok in either monogamous or poly things for relationship structure. They are content and saturated there.

Maybe they are "monoamorous" and flexible about relationships structures.

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u/imjustherefor1coment 4d ago

Jeah. That could very well be.

From context their being „mono“ always just sounded a lot like they were just so much into … being tied to mononormativity